My friend is touching himself in class...?

Question

One of my closest male friends has started this habit where he touches himself a lot in class. I have him in three classes and he touches himself frequently in all three. We've been at school for a week and people are really starting to notice. I don't want to shame him and make him feel bad but I'm embarrassed for him...what should I do to let him know what he's doing is bad and wrong and he shouldn't be doing it in class?

We're both 15, btw. 10th graders.

Answer 1

Please post pics next time. Seriously, take a pic of him doing this..then show him.

Answer 2

just tell him to stop

Answer 3

imbarres him he'll stop it after that

Answer 4

WELL ASK HIM IF HE HAD CRABS IF HE SAY NO TELL HIM TO STOP

Answer 5

lololol  rofl  

Answer 6

all boys touch themselves you must be noticing him for somereason maybe you wish he was touching you,

Answer 7

This is very normal boys to elderly men do this alot .. it should not happen in public but we do forget sometimes ...

You should tell him privately that you have noticed and if you have noticed then others have noticed .. Tell him that you love him and you understand its normal for guys to do this but there is a time and place for it and its not here and now in class.. Tell him that you don't want him to be embarrassed or get in trouble ... Be kind about it though .. Boys are more sensitive than you think..  

Answer 8

d**n, where do you live that you are already in school?  I don't start my sophomore year for another 4 weeks.  But anyways, you need to tell him!  I hate when I see other guys casually sticking their hands down their pants.  And if other people are noticing, it probably isn't for the better.  If anything, you are hurting him by not telling him.  Whether he realizes it or not, you should tell him.

Answer 9

If you don't want to embarrass him, you should put a note in his locker or on his desk or something, and tell him.

Answer 10

DOOD feraking tell him! he probaly doesnt know he is doing it! i would soooo want someone to tell me if i ever did anything like embarrasing!

Answer 11

you really should let him know. it would be very embarissing if he's exposed.

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Answer 12

is he playing with it or just adjusting it?  sometimes it gets in an uncomfortable position and u need to adjust

Answer 13

s**y.

Answer 14

say indirectly. like omg did u see that guy at the back of the class (i.e someone else - make it up) omg he was like feeling himself. its so wierd when people do that.

iindirectly give him the message. but dont say it TO him, say it to someone else while hes in the convo

Answer 15

Join him.

Seriously though, tell him directly and be like

"AIYO DAWG YOU BE TOUCHIN YO SELF IN CLASS MAYNE"

"THAT AIN'T DOPE MAYNE"

Answer 16

just get him alone then frekin' tell him!!

Answer 17

zomg this is sick do you guyz have a very s**y teacher or something...

wells you got to tell him i could not hang round with a guy that did that sorter stuff its extreamly odd.

you should tell him up front its only embarrasing to him and hes the 1 that should be embarrised insteed of you.