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Question

Last week, me and my friend were out shopping. Then we noticed her boyfriend smoking with some friends. She is really shocked. She is so confused and doesn't know what to do. Can someone help me? Thanks!

Answer 1

Either accept his smoking or not accept it.Sounds like she doesn't know her b/f too well.

Answer 2

Chill out!  I know smoking is bad for you and very disgusting but if he chooses to smoke than thats his decision.  I myself dont smoke and find it very disgusting and very dumb.  If she doesnt like smokers then she should try to get him to quit and if he doesnt want to then shes best off with someone else.  =)  

Answer 3

So I'm guessing that you guys are against smoking?

Well, first calm down.... breathe!

Then, your girly should go have a talk with her boyfriend about it and see what he has to say. Try convince him to quitting maybe? Or ask him why he hid that fact away from her. It might simply be that he was scared that she would dump him for that fact, so you really need to have a CALM chat... no SHOUTING!!!! =p

Answer 4

Just tell her to say to him she doesn't like smoking and if he stops then he stops.. I had the same problem with my boyfriend but moaning at him about it only made us argue so I just learnt to accept it.

Answer 5

Whats devastating? So he smokes on the sly? Big deal... Lots of people do things on the sly, that are fairly harmless. Like we girls eat more without our b/f's around. Well I do...lol

He knew he reaction would be hands in the air and OMG, is why he did it on the sly...  

Answer 6

omg geez it just smoking take a chill pill

Answer 7

he's probably growing up! leave the kid alone, he'll grow out of smoking.

All she can do is warn him about what smoke does, not just to him but to her as well (DON"T NAG HIM ABOUT IT). Also, she should ask why he didn't tell her that he smoked...

Answer 8

Don't over-react. If it has really upset her, she should talk to him (calmly) about it, and tell him why she is unhappy. Help by being supportive of your friend, but not judgmental about the boyfriend, since it is not you who is in a relationship with him. And try not to get sucked into a big drama; sometimes people have to sort things out for themselves.

Answer 9

even though smoking is harmful and hes probably too young to b doing it..your friend shouldnt b devastated over it...

tell her theres worse things he could b doing so just relax..

Answer 10

Is that all? I thought you were talking about something interesting like infidelity.

That's not devastating, unless you're 12.

Answer 11

lol what's devastating about smoking? If she's that emotional about it, she can talk to him about it and they are the only two who can come up with a solution for whatever problem that there is.