My friend just got molested....help?

Question

my friend was molested a few months ago and he is bisexual but now everytime he tries to watch g*y born it reminds him fo that guy.i tried to help him out but i dont know how.can someone help me?

Answer 1

Just be there for him, let him talk if he feels like it, and lay off the p**n!  It's probably way too soon for him to feel like being sexual or even seeing anything that makes him relive that experience, so just give him some time.  And I would definitely recommend therapy.  I only wish I'd gotten therapy when I needed it!

Answer 2

well he obviously needs help dealing with the molestation first. maybe lay off the p**n until he can deal

Answer 3

he needs to talk to someone....  

Answer 4

that is a very bad tragedy that happened to your friend.first off make sure her reported it after that there isn't much you can do for him.he might just need some time and some people to talk to about it. maybe a phyciatrist even. when about a month has past take him out again get him clubbing or soemthinggg. he might be able to just get over it in a matter of TIME. thats th keyword in things like this. so just be there for him when he needs you.

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Answer 5

visit the RAINN website.  Just type in RAINN in your search engine and it should be the first one.  They will have some good suggestions.  Hope that helps.

Answer 6

Maybe he should not watch that for now?

He needs counseling as you and I are not equipped to deal with the people we are close to.

We do not have the skills and even if we did it drains from us, as like I said, we are too close to the issue.

He needs to talk to someone who he can trust to hold his information confidential and is unbiased.

Answer 7

I have had this happen to me when I was a little girl by a family member. Your friend really needs to talk to someone about this to help him deal with all of the emotions that come with being molested. This is something that never really goes away and if he does not deal with it now it will emotionally isolate him later in life. Try to get him to talk to a professional about it or at least family and friends. he needs to release the pain he is feeling because right now he is letting it build up inside and that will eventually hurt him one day. I am so sorry for your friend and what he has been through. You can email me if he needs to chat with someone that has been through this.