My friend just lost a lot of weight is now getting constant male attention and she doesn't know what to do.?

Question

What is supposed to say to all these guys that hit on her. I mean she's thrilled but scared too. All those years being so low in self-esteem and now it's hard for her. Any advice?

Answer 1

I had a friend with the same problem.  Basically I just told her to turn down the men she didn't think were attractive down politely and say yes within reason to the men she wanted to go out with.

Answer 2

She needs to consider a support group and/or counselor to help her build self-esteem and learn to make the right choices among men - and other things.  And good for her for losing weight!  A healthy weight (not too thin!) is the best disease prevention outside of abstaining from smoking.