My friend keeps on following me!?what should i do!?

Question

ok so i have a friend...she's pretty nice.

and she's in 2 of my classes. and today we had this special activity were we go outside and play. and she was freaking following me! ugh i was playing frisbee with my best friend and she just joined us.

and she sits in my lunch table. and in class she always wants to sit with me.

and at lunch she keeps on talking to me, and said that my friends are very talkative, and she is too!

i'm starting to hate her now! and she's not even my best friend! she wanted to be my friend at first place. and she's really annoying! ughhh. but i can't just ditch and ignore her. that'd be mean.

what should i do??

[sorry if it's too long]

Answer 1

be like

bak of befur i slap the braces out ur mouth

then start laughing

wait

for her to laugh

and then

tell her the truth

Answer 2

I never knew wanting to be friends is considered rude/annoying? Okay. The "she copied what I did like drawing on the floor or biting my nails" etc. More of like a "okay.." sort of thing. Joining you and your best friend joining frisbee? What? She probably didn't know anyone else in gym except you. Always talking and wanting to sit next to you? Any normal friend would want to.

I've seen/experienced worst stalker cases and this isn't even considered to be "following/copying me" case. She just seems really friendly and you're the person that is ticked off at her friendliness.

So give her a rest, sheesh. She probably doesn't have any other friends except you. If anything, I think she should not have a friend so rude like you.

Did you even want to be friends with her in the first place?

Plus, if it ever escalates to an ACTUAL stalker case, point out little habits/things she do that is unique or something. Like, "Wow! Green looks great on you!", "This haircut would suit your personality and face shape more", etc. Things like that that would help her bring out the TRUE her.  

Answer 3

woah what a stalker!!!!! lol...

just ditch her.

Answer 4

ive had friends like this. unfortunatly, if you dont want to be mean, theres nothing really you can do. but most likely either youll stop noticing it, or shell get bored and stop

Answer 5

She sounds almost exactly like a friend of mine. Is your friend new or does she not have many friend? She could be following you because you're too nice, and she's trying to take advantage of the situation for her benefit. The best thing you can do is to be firm and tell her exactly how you feel. It might be harsh but unless you somehow turn invisible, she's not going to go away. I told my friend:

"I'm so glad we're friends this year, but I need my own space sometimes."

She took it a little hard at first, but then she found more friends and decided not to follow me around all the time. I still talk to her, too!

Answer 6

seriously you got to talk to her about this and if it keeps going on: don't be her friend

Answer 7

UGH! i hate those ppl! GO MCR!!!!!!!!!!!<3

Answer 8

OMG!!

I have a friend just like that, i know it'll be mean to just ditch her, butt that's wut i did.

When i saw that it really started getting on my nerves, I just left her.

Sure she complained and she's kinda obnoxious and she's always like " when you care enough about me then you talk", But wutever, just don't let it get to you, tell her to stop bugging you, and stop copying her. If you do it once, she'll understand what she's doing is getting to you. She'll get it- don't worry, ignore her

Answer 9

Since you've obviously tried to ditch her on more than one occasion

just simply say "Can you leave me alone? I need some space and you're really annoying. Im sorry but i dont want to be friends with you"

ive done it before xD

and it worked for me =]