My friend left me alone in Hershey Park so that she could go off and make out with not one, but TWO boys?

Question

My friend left me alone in Hershey Park so that she could go off and make out with not one, but TWO different boys. Now she expects me to feel sorry for her because they might find out. I told her that I do not feel sorry for her because she ruined the trip for me. She went home that night and cut herself. Now she and one of my other good friends won't speak to me. What do I do? How is this fair?

Answer 1

It's not fair, and it's not your fault. Find some better friends. Tell your cutting friend to get some help.

Answer 2

umkay u have some pretty crazy friendsz! i say u don blame urself OR CUT lol. so um life just isn't fair! try to get some normal non-cutting friends! u don't need negative influences in ur life!

~lotsz off lukk~

Answer 3

act like you dont care that they are not talking to you ...they just want you to give them their way and act like your feelings do not matter. your friend has no respect for you or for herself

Answer 4

No, that is not fair. Your friend took advantage of you. She ditches you one moment and then expects you to feel sympathy for her because she might be caught. She obviously is not a good friend and neither is your friend that is going along with her not talking to you. I dealt with something like this over spring vacation, but we got through it by talking. But if she is not going to talk to you its for the best.

Answer 5

Your friend is a ... you know what? I would just end the relationship with your friend, because she doesn`t seem to care about you or your feelings. I would also ditch that other friend of yours, because she obviously isn`t being a true friend either if she`s not supporting you on this. :(

P.S. I know what I`m saying may sound harsh, but it`s something I would do.

Answer 6

Its not fair on u at all she cut herself either 2 make u fell sorry for her or because she feels sorry for herself if they don't speak 2 u then she is trying to make u upset. U can try and help her but think if u want 2 b part of this

             Molly

P.S thx for reading

Answer 7

Maybe you should have felt for her at her time of need and pointed her mistakes, and not make her feel bad about something different from the topic. Then at another time confront her about how wrong it was for her to ruin the trip. I agree that its not fair, but if she is a really good friend to you then go up and apoligize for not having the compassion she wanted from you and talk about how she should understand that you were hurt too. If she is a really good friend she should understand and apoligize too.

It also doesn't hurt to pray about it!

Answer 8

First of all she needs to learn to share ;)  Secondly, don't be a pushover; confront your "friend" about it.  Because of the extremeness of the situation, I would support her but also encourage her to get some professional help in addition to the support you give to her even just by listening.