My friend needs help with her capricorn guy.?

Question

My friend has been dating a capricorn guy and they got on great but because of her past she felt that she would get hurt somewhere along the line. She told this guy about her concerns and said better a little hurt now by saying goodbye than a big hurt later. She knows now she has made a big mistake and should have given this guy a chance. He won't speak to her now even though he said he understood where she was coming from because he too had been hurt in the past. What can she do because she is missing him bad and wishes she turn back time and not said good bye, but she can't. They are not kids but both in their 40's

Answer 1

He did understand her concerns, but what she doesn't realise is, she gave him up and it hurt HIM, now he will wonder how easily she would do it again, and he won't allow her the chance.  She'd best find herself another man and make sure it ain't a Capricorn.  They never forget and can be very strong emotionally when they want to be.

Answer 2

Well my advice is for her to move on with her life and accept that some things cannot be undone.!!!

Answer 3

If she apologises and tells him she realises that she made a mistake there might be a chance of reconciliation.Does she miss him or does she love him,if it's love tell her to chase this guy to the end of the Earth,he's hurting but the right words from your friend and the romance can be rekindled.Best of luck.

Answer 4

Capricorn will cut you off cold if you cross them like this, and they will long nurse resentments that you never hear them mention..

Answer 5

Everyone has been hurt before - especially when you get to your 40's - most of us have been through a few relationships that haven't worked out.  I doubt if this guy will come back, I know that if it were me I would not. When you get to your 40's you just can't be bothered to be messed around, life is too short.  Your friend needs to forget about this chap and use the experience in the future to give people a chance.  It's nothing to do with star signs - this is clearly a guy who can't be bothered with messers.

Answer 6

She let him go. He has more sense than to take that twice.

If she can't accept people for who they are, she needs to learn to cope with being alone.

Answer 7

He will be protecting his own heart and will have taken her at her word. It will take a lot of grovelling on her part,she will have to work hard to gain his trust.

Answer 8

More difficult when older. Capricorn guy has already felt the hurt from when she last said goodbye, why would he chance it again. She should stick to her decision for better or worse.  

Answer 9

im so sorry to say but capricorns never forget and never forgive. they will wait until the time is ripe to take sweet revenge. there is not much you can do.

Answer 10

He has already moved on.She should get on with her life.