My friend read my journal!!!?

Question

I was trying to be nice and let my friend borrow my bag while I was away, and I forgot to get my journal out of there. So when I decide to go pick up my bag I find out she's away, but her bro gave it to me when I went to go get it. He told me my journal was in her room. So now I know she read it because there was no other reason for her to take it out of my bag unless she read it. I know she is going to deny it if I confront her about, and I am SUPER PISSED OFF!!! I mean it was my journal I had personal stuff in there for noone else to read!!! What do I do now that she knows all that?

Answer 1

well just confront her and clarify the situation.

calm down first because you don't want to say anything you would regret.

Answer 2

well, don't jump to conclusions, this does look like she has read it, but did you ever consider that maybe she took it out for another reason? maybe she went away or whatever reason she needed it for and somebody, for example, her brother, mum, dad, other friend?, wanted to get something out of there, pulled out the diary and she just said something like 'that's mine, don't read it!'? maybe it's just like that. if she doesn't admit it, but is really defensive and stuff, then she probably did read it, and that's really wrong, so i hope she didn't read it becuase that's not what true friends do but don't jump to conclusions!  :)

Answer 3

Don't ask her. Don't say anything.

If it comes up, say, "Yah, so did you have fun reading my journal?"

It'll catch her SO off guard, she probably won't say something right away.

If she pretends not to know what you mean, roll your eyes, and say, "Whatever..."

Pretend like you KNOW what she did, but let her WONDER if you're upset about it.

Make her worry.

Answer 4

For a test start talking about stuff you written in your joneral not like details like for example. "You put umm Jake is so hot I wish he would ask me out and then kiss me." Then when your with her go like "So I had this dream about Jake" or something that will make her say something like about what she read