My friend removed me from his myspace page and said we cant talk anymore. Why wouldnt he give me the reason?

Question

I know I reposted this several times and i promise this is the LAST time, but im obsessing over it, and I cant seem to have closure because he wont tell me WHY he "cant talk anymore."

My friend, whom I've been casually romantic with, sent me a one-sentence email saying:

"ummm...we cant talk anymore....dont ask."

Then he removed me from his myspace friends page and ALSO blocked me. I cant email him anymore.

I feel so bad because i KNOW the only reason he blocked ME was to avoid receiving email from me. It's an awful feeling.

Obviously there must be a reason WHY he doesnt want me in his life anymore. WHY WONT HE TELL ME THE REASON? What exactly does "dont ask" mean?

Does this mean he never wants to talk to me again for the rest of his life?

Or does the fact that he even bothered to email me that one-sentence breakup email in the first place (before blocking me) mean he cares a little bit?

I was thinking about creating another myspace page and emailing him saying:

"tim i care about you more than you will ever know. i hope you never forget that! your e-mail caught me by surprise since just a few days ago you wrote I MISS YOU and wanted to chill after foster care. obviously someone told you not to talk to me anymore and block me because the Tim i know would NEVER be so cold.

i know you dont want to hurt me, and i can understand why you might want me out of the picture because of jason, but sending a cryptic one-sentence email through myspace saying "don't ask" is really hurtful. i feel like you should have trusted me enough to tell me the truth instead of having me go insane obsessing what the reason is? you would be hurt too if everything was going well and all of a sudden a person you cared about doesn't want you in their life anymore with no explanation.

i dont know what else to say Tim. i'll always be here for you when you decide to talk again... and in my heart i hope you call me when you get out of foster care..."

What should I do? Does my email make me sound desperate or manipualtive? I'm hurting and obsessing....

Answer 1

did you do it with his gf or something?

Answer 2

He found someone else whom he wants to pursue a relationship with.  He was just pretending to be into men and his buddies found out.

He joined the military and must "hide" that part of his life.

He is not "out of the closet" and his family/friends came close to finding out or found his site and he's trying to convince them it was a joke.

Could be anything.  And I understand your hurt.

Answer 3

Ur a guy and hes a guy!?

wow

Answer 4

Did you answer your own question about why he wants you gone? You didn't let us know about Jason...sounds to me as if ..as you said...I can understand why you might want me out of the picture because of Jason.....I think that may say it all, don't you? I appreciate your letter to him, maybe it sounds a little hurting and obsessing, but, I would let this be a learning experience for you. Maybe you already know that Jason is the reason for this and there is no return. Move on, forget him and lesson learned.

Lot's of folks who are not "straight" are not as forgiving as you might think

Answer 5

take a deep breath calm down, i have a serious problem than you , but all i do is wait, just wait, but anways your problem is diffrent than mine , but i have a solution for you and that is, sign up for a email in yahoo or msn, and register your self in my space with the new id, and find the person, and send a msg and ask ( why ? ) and repaet this till you get your answer , never leave such questions unanswered cuz it willl really hurt you in future , trust me i am passing from that phase so i don't want anyone to be in such situation, thanx hope it was helpfull

Answer 6

move on and find another guy there are plenty of them out there!

Answer 7

That just means he is not g*y anymore.People change.You cant blame him.Greg find another body friend that is g*y.

Answer 8

um how old are you and how old is he?

Answer mine?

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Answer 9

You're not obsessing. I know how you feel it doesn't feel good. Was this person like an internet relationship? If so, try to get over it, it seems too tricky to resolve. I don't want to sound crude but if he said "can't talk anymore don't ask.." Maybe he was just playing around with your feelings in the beginning, and then decided to be a douche. I'm not sure though. He could just be confused with himself as well. Give him some time to think. But if I were you I would ask him what's wrong, try to call him? I dunno. Try to contact him in any way possible. Maybe someone got onto his myspace. You can never know with myspace, it causes so much ridiculous drama. Try not to worry about it too much. If he's truly worth it, he would understand and talk to you.

Answer 10

Follow your heart ! keep on him until he gives you a reason...sounds like he is wanting you to give up on him, I wouldn't without a reason....Its ok to hurt,because you have to first love to be hurt so badly....good luck and don't give up, do what ever you have to....

Answer 11

He has some one else and he don't like you no more that's it get over it and move on find some one else .