My friend says she will NEVER leave her cheating man...is she right?

Question

My friend has been with this guy for years. He cheats on her and she knows about it. She said she doesn't care if he cheats on her because he gives her as much money as she wants. She doesn't have to clean the house ever. She doesn't have to work. She goes shopping all the time and never complains about him cheating. She says no matter what she will not leave him.

Is she right about staying? She seems happy?

Answer 1

Stay out of it... This to me sound like a "perfect Marriage".. One is a gold digger and the other one is a Dog... Let them both stay together... They are the perfect team....This way no other good person would get stuck with both of these loser. As for you.... Why would you want to keep a "gold digger" as a friend?.. I would tell her you wish her the best..... But she is not the kind of "real" Friend you want to hang out with.

Answer 2

Who are we to judge someone who values money over love and respect?  She may seem happy...but I seriously doubt that she really is....

Answer 3

Sure, if she likes having all the money she can spend and all the STDs there are in the world, then good for her. No, she's not happy...she's only staying around for money and money doesn't make people happy. She's just buying things to replace the love and affection she should be getting from her partner, but there is only so much you can buy and when she runs out of things to buy, she'll find herself alone, unloved and disrespected. How can she be happy when she doesn't even have the self esteem enough to think she deserve someone's faithfulness and loyalty?

Answer 4

Maybe you dont know the whole story. Some people have an open relationship or agree to one when things get stale. Or, she could be secure in the fact that men N E V E R leave their wives for the women they're cheating with. Statistically, its not in the mistresses favor. Personally, I know first hand - guys dont leave their wives.

Answer 5

I know a girl that is doing the same thing kind of but she has been married quit a few times and she said they all cheated and she doesn't feel like up rooting again so she gets what she wants from this one so she said why leave. I wouldn't if I knew 100% my man was cheating I would have to do something to his and her @** if she knew we were married and then I leave.

Answer 6

no she's not right about staying because marriage is not only about the money it has a llot to do with trust, care and self control.  

both of them are untrustworthy , uncareful about each other and most definately out of control.

Answer 7

if she is happy... then there is not much you can do.

Is the situation bad? You betcha!

but it is her choice and she seems to have made up her mind

Answer 8

sounds like those two are perfect for each other. if your friend was being honest with herself, she's not really happy at all. not truly happy. she's a grown woman. you can't tell her what to do. let her learn from her own mistakes.

Answer 9

You're friend has no pride what so ever and she is only a gold digger who doesn't know the real value of life and love!

Answer 10

As tough as it may seem, don't hang out with this girl anymore. If she does that she is a bad influence. If she knows he's cheating and doesn't leave, she IS a gold digger and only wants his money obviously. Geez...

Answer 11

what is right for her might not be right for you.  I would rather work, clean my house and live hand to mouth than to think that my man was cheating.

She is really just a paid escort for business and family functions with the added benefit of life insurance beneficiary and Social Security payments

Answer 12

She knows and puts up with it because of the money.  She will probably never leave because she is getting what she wants most.

Answer 13

Probably not. But then, maybe she values money more than true love. If that's the case there's nothing wrong with that, so ignore the ignorant people on YA! who attack her even though they've never even met.