My friend since the 2nd grade will not talk to me for no reason?

Question

My friend since the 2nd grade, (I am now 20 years old) will not talk to me, for what I see as no reason. I have tried calling, texting, iming, and even facebook messaging. I don't want to just show up to her house because obv. she does not want to speak to me. We have went through periods of not hanging out, but always talking even if only on AIM or texting. I honestly didn't do anything. I don't talk behind people's back or tell secrets or speard rumors. I really don't know what to do. Should I just forget about it? Or should I keep trying to talk to her, even just to see what I might of done?

Answer 1

No just forget about her..why should u keep tryin to get a friend back who doesnt even wanna be ur friend..just forget her!! their are many more BETTER friends to come in ur life time

n if u see her..give her a face or something to p**s her off so she knows  ur not tryin to be her friend anymore..lol

Answer 2

If you have another friend who's friends with both of you, then you can ask him/her to talk to her and try to find out why she won't talk to you.

It is also possible she's going through something and doesn't want to speak to anyone right now.  

Answer 3

I would make one last attempt, make sure its by a reliable way, letter, etc. and just simply say you miss her and are puzzeled as to why she has stoped contacting her.  And then let it go.  It may very well be something that has nothing to do with you.  Eventually you will find out...

Answer 4

You should probably keep trying, at least for a little while longer. I mean, you guys have been friends since second grade? That's a long time to just ditch a friendship for no reason. Maybe you should just go over to her house, to try to talk to her; just to see why she's so mad.

If after two months, this is still going on, I would say let it go, forget about it, and move on. Evidently, if it's been two months, she has.

Answer 5

If you can truly think of no reason for this, let it go for now, she seems to have condemned you without a trial or even a hearing, obviously she has communication issues as well. Just move on and she may or may not contact you eventually, but honestly, she isn't worth all your time and stress if she behaves like she is still in 2nd grade.

Answer 6

Maybe she has her own excuse, so keep on trying, and do ask her in any way why she's doing this? i mean 14 years is not a short time to forget friends!

Answer 7

Wait it out.  She'll get over it and come around eventually.  Good luck.

Answer 8

It's time to move on.  Your friend from 2nd grade isn't your friend anymore.  I don't think I have any friends from grade school that I keep in contact with.  Why waste your time on this relationship.