My friend sorta bullies me. But I cant do anything because my group of friends like her a lot. what do i do?

Question

I don't think she understands the way I feel. But I never get a chance to say anything because no-one seems to listen! I've told my best friend and she understands but doesnt go to my school. If I'm mean to Ashly (the mean one) my friends wont understand and wont like me. Plz help!

Answer 1

Don't say anything to her face but instead, talk to others behind her back and ruin her reputation. Your friends will be all like "***** please" when she's around.

Answer 2

when i was in school, i was in a large group and in the end, it always ends up for the worst so i'd just get out of the group of friends and make new friends; this girl obviously does it to show off to your other friends and you don't deserve to be treated badly. find a group of friends who you will always get on with, a group that when you wake up in the morning, you look forward to seeing them; you don't need those other ones, they're not real friends.

my uncle told me this advice when i was your age, i was always going on about how good school was with my friends, i never ever listened in school, just always messing around with friends, getting sent out of every lesson, finding it well funny and my uncle said that i'd regret it, my friends would turn on me, they're not real friends then one day after half term, i got hit by one of the girls in the group; my uncle was right and i ruined my school life over it - don't let it happen to you.

Answer 3

:( That happened to  me last year too girl [:

and i was that age..

You need to pull ashley aside and talk to her.  If your friends kick you out because of you speaking your heart out, then they arent worth it. If Ashley is being mean to you, they should confront her too!! Maybe you can find different groups of friends to hang out with on different days and hang out with her less.  But talk to ashley, talk to your friends seperately, cuz thats a sad situation :(

Its good ur bff understands, thats what they are for!

Good luck. If i didnt answer ur q right, email mee, I will help u out !!!

much love,

Meee

ps. God is with  you girl!

Answer 4

Okay so she's picking on you because she thinks your weak. Let me guess when she bullies you, you just accept it - pretend it's just a joke? Yeah well that's the worst way to go about it, it would help if you said what she does to you but i'll try and guess. If she says something to you, bite back. Say something back to her, pick out her bad points and try and gloat about yourself, don't make it obvious so that all your friends think your being mean to her but just let her know that you mean business. If all else fails just ignore her, shake it off, don't care about what she says - she'll soon get tired. I think you've just got to be more confident and try and speak up a bit.

Answer 5

maybe ur not ment to be friends if they dont even listen to you they probably dont even consider u as a friend

u should go out more with ur best friend and find other ppl u can be friends with that will take u in consideration when u talk!