My friend wont talk to me? ?

Question

Me and my friend have known each other for years and since I was raped a few months back and then I miscarried and she told everyone -well most people in our school year - she hasn't spoke or even looked at me since. What can i do?

Answer 1

Drop her.

She ain't no friend.  

Answer 2

I think she isn't worth it. Honestly, you know who your true friends are because they walk in when the whole world walks out.

Sorry to hear about your situation by the way.. Hang in there!

Answer 3

Maybe she feels guilty about what she did, i think she is just playing childish games personally i would go and talk to her face to face and ask her why she has been avoiding you im sure once you have talked to her she'll understand your situation.

Answer 4

There is nothing wrong with you. It is something inside of her that is making her behave that way. This women isn't you friend if she went and told everyone you miscarried. You seem like you have your own personal issues that you need to work out. Rape and miscarriage in a single lifetime for one person is very hard to get over. Don't worry about your friend. If she was really your friend she would be consoling you and trying to help you. She isn't giving you space, she isn't talking to you. There is a big difference. You have one life to live and if someone doesn't want to be bothered with you, let them go. People have a way of showing you who they are through their actions. Get well!!!!

Answer 5

It sounds like she feels a bit guilty and thinks you're probably very upset with her! It should be her worrying about how you feel than the other way around. She has betrayed your trust, but if you feel you can forgive her and move on with your life, then you should sit her down and get it out in the open.

Hope all works out.

Answer 6

Shes embarrassed about what she did and probally thinks your upset with her in which you should be!!! She had NO RIGHT going around talking about such personal things about you to others. I don't call that a friend????   You might want to consider who your hanging with??  Good luck and get some counceling for the rape.

Answer 7

I don't think you need friends like her. She seems like it isn't worth your time if she's going to tell everyone your personal stuff. She ashamed of what she's done and I don't blame her.