My friends and I are going downtown for my birthday...but what to do for my one guy friend?

Question

So there are going to be like 20 or 30 of us, but I'm thinking about bringing this homeschooled boy from my church cuz I think he needs some company sometime. Only thing is he's not really my 'friend' he's just..there..at mi church. But ya. Anyways. Would a guy like to go shopping, chill at a smoothie/drink/food shop [really cute place], go to a proffesional photo shoot, and karaoke? I think we Might be able to find like an arcade for him, but I want to get home soon after..it'll be like a three hour hangout, and then it's at my house. Would he have fun..? I mean it's all girls and he's the only guy..and I don't want to invite any other guy..I sorta like him too :}.&& if not what should I do to keep him from getting bored???

[No gross/bitcha ss suggestions please]

Thank You!! :D

Answer 1

You know, it depends on the guy. I don't know too many guys that like to go shopping with girls though!

I'd tell him what you are doing and who is going. You didn't stay whether or not he knows any of the other girls going. Ask him if he'd like to go and hang out with you all. You need to remember though that you will be with all your friends so you won't be focusing all your time on him and if he doesn't know your friends then he might be very uncomfortable.

Answer 2

JUST ASK HIM , TELL HIM WHAT YOUR PLAN`S  ARE AND LET HIM CHOOSE IF HE WOULD LIKE TO GO , NO HARM IN ASKING AND IAM SURE  JUST BEING ASKED WOULD MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD TO ,,, HOPE YOU HAVE A GREAT BIRTHDAY , ... :  - }

Answer 3

I think one guy in the midst of a bunch of girls he doesn't know, for a birthday party, is going to stick out like a sore thumb--and feel like it, too. So, no, I don't think he'd have fun. 20-30 girls together are going to monopolize things with girls' idea of fun and conversation, which is NOT the same as for guys.

If you want to spend time with him, set something up some other time with a mix of guys and girls.

Answer 4

My BF in high school was a guy.His birthday was the day before mine andwe ALWAYS spent time with each other and a group of girls we were friends with.No other guys went. We had a Blast doing whatever.