My friends and i are growing apart?

Question

I have had this one friend since about kindergarten and she has/had been my bf since. she is very popular pretty, skinny and social pretty much all of the things that i'm not. but until a few months ago way back when school wasn't even out for summer yet i started to notice that she and a couple of my other friends hadn't been talking to me recently. at that time i figured it was nothing but now it has become an issue of what i suspect to be the end of our friendship. i have accepted this and tried to move on but i see them in my town hanging out with each other constantly. and i can't help but think what did i do wrong. i am dying to know why it is that they stopped talking to me but i am afraid to ask them face to face especially since i'm entering high school and also the fact that we haven't spoken all summer. should i ask my bf or former bf why she has been ignoring me? or should i just forget about them and move on?

Answer 1

Move on baby, it's probably for the best.  She is probably doing things that she knows you would not approve of, that's why you are not included.  Make new friends.  This will most likely not be the only time this will happen.  People grow, they grow apart, they grow together, that's what life is all about.  It's nice to have a friend that grows with you from kindergarten to senior year, but that doesn't always happen. That's a rare friendship.  She knows you, your likes and dislikes, your morals and beliefs. You probably would not like hanging with them.

Answer 2

move on. and high school is that perfect place to start. this girl obviously doesn't appreciate your friendship enough to put an effort into saving it, so you shouldn't either. put your efforts into finding new friends, and if they come crawling back, ignore them like they did to you.

Answer 3

Maybe have a sleepover with your friends, sleepovers are something that girls seem to bond over. I hope things work out for you!  

Answer 4

Ask her what's going on. But becoming friends again won't solve anything. Last year i had friends just like that and becoming friends again won't do anything because eventually you'll end up growing apart again. Ask out of curiosity and then just move on. Entering high school means a chance to get new friends so it's okay if you want to forget about them. Don't be mean to them though. Just completely ignore them. I was mean to my former friends by bullying them on Myspace and they eventually considered bringing it up with the principal of our school so being mean is completely out of the question. Hope I Helped and Good Luck Making New Friends! =]]]