My friends are acting weird towards me...?

Question

Okay, So I have a few friends who I have been hanging out with for the past three years, And lately I feel like they don't want to hang out with me anymore, at least SOME of them don't. I Get made fun of by one of them all of the time, and when call/text them, they never want to hang out, and sometimes they just stop replying to me. One time, two of them made up a fake reason to be mad at me so they could be mad at me (they said that I didn't "treat them well enough, and that I didn't make an effort to take them places or hang out with them and I treated them like dirt" My mom and I took them to the mall the day before! if anyone was being treated like dirt it was me) I don't know, but It seems like because the three middle schools are mixing into highschool next year I "embarass" them or something and they don't want to be seen with me in front of their friends from other schools. I'm polite to them, and their parents, I help them out with school work, I try to hang out with them, but I have no Idea why they are acting like this. They never ask to hang out, and I don't want to look desperate by asking to join in on plans. I just don't like doing that, So I don't know what to do, Should I confront them, or just move on to new friends and show them what they are missing...

(P.S., we have differant interests, like clothes and music, I'm more "skater" and laid back, but they wear abercrombie and fitch and hollister, and some of them get up at like 5:30 in the morning to get ready for school. but I didn't think that it mattered that I dressed like that before, does it now because of highschool? I have no clue.)

I'm desperate please helpp I don't want to be friendless for the first day of school in a week

Answer 1

High school is a pretty tricky place, especially if you're an incoming freshmen. Most kids are just trying to find themselves. That's sounds way lame but it's true. I just got done with my freshman year and people who I thought were my friends really showed their true colors. It seems like your "friends" are just keeping you around to have someone to hate. It doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong it's more them. If you have three different middle schools mixing together in high school then you'll find more friends who like you for YOU and not just how you dress or anything like that. So you may have been hanging out with these people for three years, but people change. I say just make some new friends. It might be hard but you don't really need to take that c**p from people who you're supposed to be really close with.

Hope I helped(:

Answer 2

Please stop acting so clingy and make a new group of friends or join a new group of friends. Seems like they have a problem with you and you deserve to get treated better than that. I'm guessing they want you to leave them alone. If they still bother you when you leave them, just ignore them cause their not worth your time. Best of Luck. :)

Answer 3

Energy will be wasted--these children will not give you an honest answer if you confront them.

Time for a new beginning, for new friends who cherish you for who you are. More important thing is that you're starting a new class yourself and you don't need the aggravation. Your grades are more important then them when you think about it carefully.

So wipe your tears dry and go forward. Time will dull this pain and anger. With friends like that, who needs them?

Answer 4

They do not sound like your real friends. Get some new ones. It sounds like they are using you for you to help them with homework.

It's not that hard finding friends. Give it time, it's better to have no friends then to have friends that treat you like c**p.

Answer 5

u know something. u sound like a kid with ur head planted firmy on ur preety head. it wud be entirely their lose not having u as a fren. u shudn't worry bout this mad girls. who gets up at 5.30am to get ready for school!! they're probably living in the world of "fakes". do urself a big favour and ditch them. u won't lose anything believe me. get new frens who'll value u and ur frenship. and yes never makes urself "run" after them cos then they'll think that u can't function without them. so start looking for new frens & don't care a hoot bout them. and prove to them tat u can still live without them around u and that u're extremely happy and chilled out wihout them. i'm sure that will make smoke coming out from thier asses.

Answer 6

omg.....The exact same thing happened to me and kindof is to. They all made up reasons to be mad....and said i treated them like dirt. What I did is just said ok if you want to make an effort and be my friend then try. if not good bye. Cause seriously... if their dumb enough to let a good friend go. be smart enough to let them walk the other direction