My friends aren't real friends and ..... ?

Question

When i was in 6th grade I got a group of friends. They are really nice and alll , but i think they are taking advantage of m. They always dump me and if i invite them places , they never show up and never call. i get them presents for their birthdays and invite them to partiea and lend them money. I think I am a good friend , but I guess they don't like me. It is really hard for me to make friends. Ineed help . What should I do ??

Answer 1

Dump those friends they are not friends. you haave what they call acquantences. there is very few friends and you can find some but you hae to be patient. when you do find them you will know they will keep what ever you say quiet and then they will be there for you forever and not dump you and therefore i would just make new friends or even hae boys as firends they are nice then most girls.

Answer 2

Find new friends, I know it might be hard for you to make new friends but those people really arent your friends.

Stop hanging out with them, the more you stick to them, the more they are going to take advantage and neglect you. Its better to be a loner for a little bit and make yourself more availible than to stick with not true friends. Just stop hanging out with them.

Answer 3

get addicted to world of warcraft. solves all your problems

Answer 4

You are a good friend. Dont be friends with them. Just ignore them. They are TERRIBLE friends. I cant believe you put up with them for doing that to you. Ignore them and if they want to wonder why you are ignoring them just tell them, "I deserve better than you guys, face it you guys were treating me like trash!, I was a good friend to you but you guys were terrible friends to me!"

Hope I helped =)

Answer 5

sounds to me like your being used...stop talking to them..before you get in way to deep with them..you could also just stop giving them things, and slowly they will move on to another piece of cardboard..no offense.

Answer 6

what you need to do is leave c**p on their doorstep.I NEVER let people take advantage of me. I am a shy and quiet person so its hard for me to make friends too. But when i come across people like these, i move on. Find some people in your class that you know are nice and just start a convo with them. I hope this all works out

bye1

Answer 7

Well i know they arnt a real friend then im not saying you should ditch them and find new ones but im saying that the little things in your school that you ignore could be real friends

the girls that hang out alone by the library are the ones that are most likey to be true although they might be shy they are actually really good in the inside.

I dont know u should maybe talk to them for a while see how u like it...

but do they return ur borrowed money though? i dont know how u can stand to let them be their friend if they didnt return it.

Answer 8

I would talk to them about it, or just not talk to them for awhile. They sound like back stabbers and they're only using you. You sound like a great friend to have. Just talk to them about it and tell them their taking advantage of you. Good luck =)

Answer 9

find some new friards they sound like jerks

Answer 10

It's better to hold onto your self worth than to be a doormat for people who don't respect you. If they continue to do this you should mention it. Tell them it hurts your feelings. That'll give them a chance to fix their behavior if by some chance they aren't aware that they're hurting your feelings. If they keep acting like this you need to find some new friends. It seems hard to make friends...but it always happens. And it's def. much better to have one reliable friend than a group of people that don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

Answer 11

Sorry to say this but from what you said up there here is my conclution: THEY ARE USING YOU.  

As for what you should do about it here:

Try hanging out with other people or simply just try talking to people in your class.

Also if they are clubs at your school try joining a club that interests you.

Just a question about your question

but have you ever pointed out the fact that they never call call or show up or do they call and say they can't?

Also what do you mean by they DUMP you?

If you can  give a little bit more info on the situation maybe i can give you  a clearer answer.

Good luck!  

Answer 12

If u fall for any, u r in for dismay. Be a friend if someone seeks it from u and be choosy in that. Don't try to buy friendship through gifts. There must be something to share with a friend. What hobbies u have and what games u play ? That's more important in a friendship.

Answer 13

Hon, you'll find out in time that friends come and go in life.  Interests change and personalities change and... it's just the way life goes.  Never let anyone take advantage of you.  Never lend out your money unless it's a true emergency and you know you'll get paid back.  You can find new friends by joining a sports team, a school club (if your school doesn't have any, start one), or by doing volunteer work.  Good luck and hang in there!