My friends ditch me for this other stupid chick?

Question

yesterday my friend got back from mexico (she was there the whole summer) and she called me when she got back and asked me if she could come over tommorrow and i said ya and so this morning i called her and nobody answered and then her little brother came over the hang out with my little brother and i asked him where she was and he said she was with this girl named emma! she's like, one grade above us and she's a jerk and she's ugly but all my friends ditch me for her and it makes me really mad cuz like i always make plans with them and then they go and hang out with her instead! i'm nice and fun to be with i just don't get what's so great about her! i've tried to be nice to emma it's just not working help!

Answer 1

find new friends to make her and your other friend jeluas and or pretend you don't care and say your busy or somwhere else when your friend calls or comes over. If not that just wait it out or tell your friend how you feal.

Answer 2

get new frends, not exactly easy but if ur frends ditch u just like tht then theyr not worth it, trust me

Answer 3

Maybe it's just one big misunderstanding. You should of confronted your friends and talked about your problem.

Answer 4

Find some real, loyal friends who won't ditch you.

Answer 5

you should tlak to them and tell them "it hurts me when you do ditch me for that girl" now put it in your own words and dont call emma a ***** even though you may want to. they may tell her and that might make some fights erupt.

if they practically tell you they dont care about your feelings tell them. "if you dont care about em then theres no reason we should be friends" if they say fine. then. your not friends anymore. dont beg someone whos a a*****e to be your friend it breaks down your confidence and makes you feel bad. find some new friends schools aobut to start back up its the perfect time of year for friend hunting.

message me if you need clarity with something.

i hope i helped.

Answer 6

welll then try to hang out with them i mean like just do some thingd that they do and then some time thell be nicer to you cuz thats wut i did with my friends that ditched me and dont worry there are a million pple waiting to meet you cuz your speical and who wouldnt want to be your friend if your nice and funny anyways dont worry i mean there are alottt of pple waiting to meet you you never know wut will happen :) :P

Answer 7

i think you should tell your friend how you feel and if she doesnt seem to care about your feelings then find new friends. Your friend should care about you and include you with her other friends.

Your real friends are those that want you in their lives!  

Answer 8

Im best friends with someone who does that, mostly because when she is hanging out with the other girls in another town it's just to get closer to guys. But anyway find other friends so that you can show them you don't need them and you don't care untill they come missing you. It might not be for a long while but they will come around one day. And a question..why don't your friends invite you to hangout with this girl. Im confused why you can't be her friend to. Usually my friends just bring new ppl and we hangout. Im sure this girl aint that bad..I mean if they were real friends they wouldn't constantly ditch you. I think you need to hangout with her sometime your friend who ditched you and talk to her about it and try to hangout in a group or something so your not always ditched.  

Answer 9

well i think that maybe u should jsut try really hard to get along wit her even if u dont like her cuz if u dont then u wont have any friends cuz they will keep ditching u for emma...and if she is being a ***** to u in front of yur friends and they dont stand up for u then it sounds like u should make some new friends cuz why should u care about them if they dont even care about u...be strong and u will make it through this!

Answer 10

Your friends don't like you so just get over it and move on.

Answer 11

Next time she calls, tell her you're busy.  She'll get the picture eventually that you're mad, then you guys will get into a fight, not speak to each other, kiss and make up when school starts up (I'm presuming you're still in high school) and it will all start over again.

Answer 12

dude why are u cussing out the people u asked them for help it ur problem that u don't like the advice try watchin the joebro i sure that will help u XD

Answer 13

Well get over it

They obviesly dont wanna hang round with u

Answer 14

get your self a new friend to make her jealous and she will be so mad she will froget emma and then make friends with emma too and leave that old friend then if you ever found her alone go ask her if she's ok and then say come hang out with us

Answer 15

I've also been with those type of friends. What's happening is, ur friends think they will be "cooler" if they hang out with emma. What you do is ditch ur friends in return and say "hey, if you don't wanna hang out, or have other plans, TELL ME!" Just wait and if they don't talk to you or whatever, then they weren't true friends. Was I helpful?