My friends ditched me, what should i say?

Question

i'll tell you the story today me and 2 of my friends were heaps amped because their was a gig playing tonight and we were all gunna go and it was only $10 and 8 bands were performing. i asked my parents and they said no because they didnt want to drive me but i told her to ring me if they had a way of getting us their even though they said no if i had a way of getting their i prob would of been aloud. Anyways she never rang so i assumed they didnt go and i got a call from one of my guy friends and he said oh did they ditch you and im like huh and he explained that he rang her mob and he heard really loud music and screaming, i was so heartbroken and when she came on msn i asked her if she went and i was acting calm and just like oh ok cool...then i asked why didnt you ring, and she hasn't answered me...also we had planned for tonight that i was going to sleep at her house after the concert and im pretty sure my other friend is sleeping their now when we weir going to before.

am i over reacting? why won't she answer me? why did they do that, when we have been friends for ages and i wasn't out of dribing distance to be picked up and dropped back...so wtf?

please answer, because i feel like c**p right now...

Answer 1

maybe you are over reacting.maybe she had a problem and so she doesn't want to talk about it. you should go to the sleepover and talk to her face to face.don't believe in stuff you hear without proofs!don't be dis-hearted!I'm sure there a good reason..

Answer 2

I ditched some of my friends before....but i don't want to tell them the reason why cause i might hurt them (I'm using "them" cause i did it thrice, 3 different persons). I ditched them cause there are some of their traits that I dont like and and we don't jive with each other. So my advice..better try to backout for awhile, avoid calling them a lot. If they come and asked you to join them again, then its ok to join them.

But, be mature ...people will not always tell you everything, even though they are your friends. Respect their privacy. If they want to keep some secrets to themselves, accept it. They have their own reasons.

Oh by the way, I am avoiding the "ditching" thing already, I talk to my friends now if I need to tell them what I don't like about them.

Answer 3

prob went with someone who she didnt want you to see cause it might have made you upset or prob she just couldnt stand you. over time people either get closer or grow apart....you need to talk to her. Call her, text or IM..if she asks why you rushing her....tell her how you feel if she is a true friend it should matter to her. Even if they did ditch you, its their loss. Fake friends come and go, true friends last forever. I got wasted couple of times.....friends always took me home, we always have a designated driver. Don't waste your time on ppl who dont deserve or appreciate your friendship. Best wishes to you...dnt be depressed. Just wait an talk to her then decide if she is your friend still or who your new friend is gonna be :)

Answer 4

sounds like you need some new friends.....my friends ditched me one time and i just found some new ones until they stopped hearing me always try to hang out with them, and then they will come back to you, wanting you to be their friend again.

Answer 5

ditch her just forget about her