My friends found out i wear a padded bra & now i'm really embarrassed?

Question

my 2 best friends looked at an old victoria's secret receit which said " padded underwire" and i tried to look confused (even more dumb of me) and i'm really embarrassed now.

girls: how would you feel if you were in my situation? and is this honestly really embarrassing?

Answer 1

Lol, I tell people I wear a padded bra, when I walk into Victoria's Secret I ask the employees to lead me to the padded bra section. :) I don't see why your friends would even care what bra you wear.

Answer 2

I'm a 34 B, and I wear a padded bra.  So does my sister, and she has implants.  So does my best friend, and she's a 36 DD.  Your friends are probably wearing them too, and so are the rest of the girls you know.  The Very s**y padded underwires from Victoria's Secret are the best selling bras they have.  If they're the best selling, it's because girls like you, me, and the girls you hang out with and go to school with are buying them.  If they make fun of you, when you're at their house, you could say, "Whatever!  I bet you wear padded bras too!"  When they deny it, tell them to prove it, and go through their bra drawer.  If they don't own padded bras-(I have only known one girl who never did, and I'm 26), then you can just say, "Well, some of us need a little extra help!  You got b***s, I got ____ "(fill in with your best asset).  Honestly, if you don't make a big deal out of it, and you don't let them see you get embarrassed, and you don't get mad at them when they blab about it, and you just act like you don't care, they will get bored of teasing you.  If you don't give them a reaction, they will lose interest.  And just so you know, I know a LOT of guys who DON'T like big b***s, because as you get older, the bigger your b***s are, the more they sag, which is NOT attractive.  Girls with big b***s also get really ugly stretch marks.  I'm 26, and my b***s don't sag, because I don't have huge b***s, so I can wear strapless bras, or no bra at all, and still look good while my friends who made fun of me when I was your age all have big ugly granny bras, and they're all jealous now.  So who cares if you wear a padded bra?  If it makes your girls look good, and it makes you feel good, I say go for it!  I refer to my bra as "my removeable implants!"

Answer 3

Were these female friends?  If so, I wouldn't think this would be that big of a deal.  In fact, they might have been wearing the same bra at the time.  

Think of it this way:  What are your friends doing looking through your receipts?  

It's over.  They know you wear padded bras.  Fine.  There's nothing you can do about it now.  You can make a big deal out of it, but that will probably only prolong your embarrassment.  

Just move on.  

Answer 4

All my friends wear padded bras.

We're asian. Oh the gift of small b***s...

They make them padded for a reason, and if you like them, pft who cares what they think. Your boob size isnt for them to stare at right... its for.. ahem yourself..?

Answer 5

well it really depends on the relationship you have with your friends.

my friends would laugh at me but i would honestly tell them i think i have no b***s, and i want some, hahha.

probably doesn't help, but thats my story.

Answer 6

Don't be ashame....be yourself...at least you've something to show...