My friends keep judging me....?

Question

I dont really know how to say this but my friends be like ooo why do you stick your butt out when you walk, why you stick your chest out, why do you wear such short shorts, why do you try to be s**y???? and alot of other stuff like that, but its really f*ckin wit me, and im sick of it. They have been my friends since we were like 4 years old, but i just dont know wat to do. We dont get in fights or nuthing,but its getting annoying, and one of them thinks im am trying to be s**y for her boyfriend because i came outside in shorts when her and her boyfriend were across the street. And they said i was sitting all s**y and all dis S**t. (WHiCH ii WASNT!!!). I just dont know anymore. What do you think i should do?

Answer 1

they are just hating cause your hot

Answer 2

If there really true frends then they would'nt judge you...and they would believe you bout not flirting with her man

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Answer 3

You wearing shorts when her boyfriend was there was a coincidence from what you have told us. They were just reading into it to much. It sound like you just have a very grown up figure so by wearing certain clothes is emphasised which there interpreting as you trying to be s**y. You don't have to do anything I guess if you really don't like the comments you could think about the image your clothes portray to others thats and change your style slightly so it doesn't come accross as 's**y' in the wrong situation.  

Answer 4

Firstly talk to your friends and tell them how you feel. If they don't stop judging you then they aren't worth their friendship with you and find new friends that respect you.

Answer 5

First off I think that your friends are jealous of you and maybe she is just afraid that her bf will start liking you.

Now, to your question. I think that you should tell them how you feel. Tell them that it is getting very old and you are sick of them telling you all the bad things about yourself. Tell them that you will dress, walk, and talk the way that you want to and that its better to be yourself than to mimic someone with a such a small brain so if they are hinting around that you should dress like them, tell them its out of the question. When I was in high school i went through the same thing. I had a larger chest then all of my friends, so they always thought I was wearing clothes to show off my chest. Don't worry about it, in the end just be who you want to be and dont worry about what they say.  

Answer 6

are they jealous of you or sumthin? or are they insecure? what do you think?. If you are social enough, maybe you should try finding new friends. If not, then the next time you hang out with your friends, and they start asking all those dumb *** questions, just be like "im tired of this ****" and walk away. They'll probably follow you and ask you whats wrong. Or when they start doing it, ask them "why do you always do that to me", like you cant take it anymore.

Answer 7

i think u should tell your friends about  what their saying to u hurts ur feelings, or u could just ignore them. I also know how u feel some of my friends say things about me but as long as i know thats not true then i dont care. If u wanna look s**y or act s**y then u should feel good about your-self.  

Answer 8

maybe you are not near as s**y as you think you are. come back down to earth.

Answer 9

They just jealous they not u........they haten on u sweetie.....just try to ignore them.........or whenever they tell u something u dont like be like.......u just mad u not me and winkk at them..........

Answer 10

Find some new friends. If they were true friends they wouldn't talk to you like that.  

Answer 11

See what it's like spending time alone, not relying upon friends but relying upon yourself. Take a few days or a week, and just see what it's like - how you see yourself when they're not around.

Next time they say something that's hurtful to you, tell them openly you don't appreciate how they are always judging you and the clothes you wear. If you are sincere and they see your sincerity then maybe things will work out. I hope things work out for you!

Answer 12

hun i think they are jealous of you, you need to talk to them they are not real friends if they carry on