My friends mad at me for laughing at her?

Question

okay so this is what happened

a guy i like was making fun of her..

and it was really really funny

and my other friends were laughing to and she wasn't even there

but these stupid lil boys told her.

and now she like hates me.

the thing he said wasn't even that mean it was just kinda funny and she wasn't even there.and shes not mad at the other people laughing just me what can i do to make her not mad at me?

i think everyone laughs at there friends once in a while..

I'm not perfect oh yeah and also she was/is drunk so i hope she forgets in the morning but sometimes she fakes drunk..so I'm not sure and I'm 14 if that helps,shes 19 though but acts like a 10 year old lol.

Answer 1

what's her problem? why is a grown woman hanging with a 14year old?  I'd laugh at her to. and she gets drunk. Just act like a mature 19 year old and  let that petty sh** ride with the wind. She needs to grow up. sober up. and stop pouting. she would laugh at his jokes if it were the other way around.

Answer 2

I'd be pissed off too. People pick on other people all the time. It's a part of life that sucks. Not to mention it can hurt feelings. It probably hurt her feelings to begin with. But to have her friend laugh also? That probably hurt worse. I mean you trust your friends to have your back, to stick up for you, and to be there for you. You did none of those things. Instead of laughing you could have stuck up for your friend. She isn't mad at the other people because maybe she doesn't care what they think. But she cares about you think about her. You are supposed to be her friend, and if you laugh at her then your basically telling her you agree with them. Good job!

Answer 3

Are you sure she isn't 10? The both of you and the rest of the crew sound pretty immature. She sound even more immature for attempting to "fake drunk" here and there. The bottom line is...not a single one of you sound like you should be drinking. I'm not saying you do. I hope you don't. She'll get over it.

Answer 4

tell her you were laughing because of something else funny that came to your mind but you happen to be looking at her (if you still want to be friend with her)  

Answer 5

Wow that's a big age difference. Just tell her you're sorry for laughing and move on. Sometimes people get strange about stuff. She's not mad at the other people but mad at you, why? Because you're her friend, not them. Your opinion of her matters more than people she doesn't know. If she really likes you as a friend, then she'll forgive you.

Answer 6

well if she was drunk when they told her maybe it fell kind of harder. yeah everybody laugh at their friends once in a while . I do it but then I ell my friends so they know and don't get the issue mixed up. if she ignores it go with the flow and if she confronts you just explain . but when your trying to explain try not to laugh because it hurt her feeling