My frnd is in love with a guy, tht guys father is not accepting for thier marriage,

Question

his father is searching a gal for him,his father is so much concern abt his cast,and saying tht if u marry tht gal i ll do something for myself,tht guy love her a lots , and his mom too but they are blackmailing him,but gals side no problem from her family,they are not letting him out and keepin him like house arrest,and now they brain washed him , but still he love tht gal very much, but he is very much concern abt his family too , so he is ready to make his parents happy by marring someother gal,but he spolied his lover,now she is ready to die, wht tht gal should do?she doesnt want him to marry any gal and spoil her life too,cos he said tht he wont be happy by marring other gal, only to make his parents happy he is going to marry , wht tht gal should do now?

Answer 1

It's his life. If he loves a girl that much, I wouldn't give two damns what my parents had to say if they were going to try to ruin it for me instead of trying to see me happy.

There are so many things wrong with the caste system, it is so outdated.

He should go for the girl that he loves, instead of having some girl sold off to him by his parents.  

Answer 2

In these days this should not be a big pronlem at all. Both of them grownup adultsm and law is in their favour both of them can have a register marriage.  For a few months his father will keep him away and one day he will realise and compromise to the situation. We are seeing so many similar cases.

Answer 3

Your friend should be happy that at least now she has

found out that her bf is a gutless wonder who doesn't have the gumption to face up to his father.She should learn to get over this guy and move on with her life.She

should write this boy off as a bad experience.She should then concentrate on her studies,if she is a

student,secure good grades,land a good job and rise to an enviable level in life.That achievement will more than offset any disappointments and spur her to greater heights,giving her a purpose in life.Wish her Good

Luck from me.

Answer 4

Find a REAL man that can make his own decisions.

Answer 5

Ask your frnd to marry a person who is not the one who she can't live without but the one who cant live without her