My future husband has 25k in credit card debt. He relocated and purchased a new house about 7 months ago and has called it our home from the very beginning. He seemed to be very organized. I recently learned that he co-signed a 30K loan for an ex-girlfriend. Guess what, she is late every month on her payments. I am have been waiting several months for my transfer to go through. It has been very stressful. He is now experiencing financial trouble, oh he is working alright. He just didn't do his homework. He counted on me to help pay for some of the bills. I have my own bills at my present home! He finally confessed that the monthly credit card bills add up to the monthly mortgage payments! I am here thinking am I nuts? I have gained 25lbs with all the stress that I am going through, at times I feel obligated to go through this. He gets upset when I mention all the financial problems. I am at a loss.
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