My g*y best friend sleeps with me then gives me the cold shoulder?

Question

im a girl and my best friend is a guy who says hes g*y. he keeps up this image around everyone he knows even his own family. but when we are alone he makes the first move and we end up sleeping together. though when we go clubbing he will pull another guy right in front of my eyes. he says he loves me but i feel used any advice

Answer 1

Stop allowing to have his cake and eat it.If you keep giving it to him,he's gonna keep coming back for more.

Answer 2

I think he is bi sexual and likes to have his cake and eat it at the same time. If he says he is g*y then there is no way in h**l he will be sleeping with a girl so I think he is confused about his sexuality.

I think the best way is to tell him how you feel and then find yourself a real man.

Answer 3

you're the fool who allows him to do this to you.

Answer 4

You ARE being USED!    Drop him and MOVE ON !   I have NO PATIENCE FOR PHONIES!!!   Your friend IS a phony !!!   And NO BODY can "use" you without YOUR permission.   If you DON'T like "being used". . . . .STOP THE PERSON THAT'S USING YOU FROM DOING IT!     GOT IT?!??????

Answer 5

well if hes doing this to u hes not g*y or at least not all the way

and i think that u should talk to him

hes not much of a friend so just let him go as a friend or just live life how its going

Answer 6

He's confused, and probably doesn't know if he's g*y or straight. Tell him that you're not putting up with his **** anymore, and that it's ruining your friendship (the most important thing). Force him to be honest with you, or with himself. If he doesn't, you have to stop being his friend. It sucks, but until he knows what he wants then you just get hurt.  

Answer 7

Ah, what you have there is a convenience g*y.  He is actually obviously bisexual, and is using you.  Recommend you get rid of this fair weather friend before he gives you an STD.

  

Answer 8

mabe hes bi. dont sleep with him again though, until you know hes really into you like that.  

Answer 9

your friend is not completely g*y!

hes just sleeping with you because he can.

and your getting attached, emotionally!

and by being with guys around you, shows that he doesnt take your sexual relationship seriously,

hes just looking for fun.

you need to let him know what your feeling.[used]

and put a stop to the s*x.

im sure he'll understand.

if you dont want the s*x to stop you need to get unattached, fast!

tell yourself that its not a big deal.

make yourself believe that you too, are using him for s*x.

good luck,

i hope i helped=]

Answer 10

stand up to him and say NO. you deserve to be treated and respected better than that. dont let him use you and be the bigger person and say no before he hurts you even more :)

Answer 11

well you should know having s*x with friends can change any friendship and confuse things alot of things i should know . anyways he might be so nervous and shocked he had s*x with a girl and a friend and maybe a little confused with himself right now so he may not be talking to you right now give him sometime and after a week or so he still acting  weired he may have used so just take sometime but that's what i think  

Answer 12

He just sounds very confused about his sexuality. give him some time but be there for him to talk to if he needs you!

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