My gf is being severly abused?

Question

She is 14 and I am 16. Last night while we were talking her brother hit her, took the phone, and told me that when I pick her up to go a movie on Wednesday it would be "fun." She keeps telling me shes fine but I can't stand the way her brother treats her. Is there anything I can do about it? From what she told me her parents don't do anything about it either so wat can I do?

Answer 1

call the police, its for her safety

Answer 2

hold your brakes mate

before you take this matter to the authorities 1st you should get her full approval

if she doesnt then you can only report the matter as a witness to abuse and stuff like that

good luck

Answer 3

I would do something about it. Talk to your parents if her parents don't do anything. Get some help, because no one should be abused like that ever.

Hope i helped you, and good luck

Answer 4

WTF! tell her to get sum balls...nobody not even HER BROTHER should be treatin her like that...but you sound sweet so try to stay understanding and nice=]

Answer 5

Well, she's very young. They will probably grow out of it. Is he younger/older?? What's the worst he's done?? We need to know this to give good advice. Some people just have different up bringing. My husband use to beat his brother up so bad when they were young and now there best-friends. You don't want to say anything and make something big out of nothing. Try hangout at her house and if he does it in front of you. Ask him what his deal is?? Don't great on his bad side because he might take it out on her whenever you guys are on the phone.

Answer 6

To begin with your girlfriend is far too young ot be dating anyway.  However you can call CPS about her brother assaulting her.  But you need to find girls your own age to date.  Fourteen is too young, too immature and too irresponsible.

Answer 7

Kick his *** man; stick up for your woman!

Answer 8

tell your parents and ask them for help they will know what to do

or someone else do not fight back that might cause the brother to hit you gf for "getting" you to protect her

Answer 9

get help for her! if you can't deal with her brother yourself, talk to your girlfriend and/or her parents (which will show that you're responsible and care a lot about her) or take a self-defense class together so she can feel like she can stand up to him more and you two can bond a little more.

Answer 10

encourage her to see if she can speak with some other relative and see what they can do to  help her.

Answer 11

Talk to her parents about it.Sit down with them and have a serious heart to heart with her brother present and your gf present.Tell them how much you care for her and your concern ( this will elevate her worth in their minds and make them think about the matter more seriously ) .From what you have said I think her family doesn't think much of her.The reason her brother treats her this way is probably based on the parents not making her seem worth much in his mind.Anyhow I think you need to address it with a serious concerned attitude then they will take it more seriously.

Answer 12

report that to the police

Answer 13

even though hes her brother he shouldnt be touching her like that. tell her to stick up for herself or to hit him back. or you should tell someone that you know can help. (police, parents)

Answer 14

Yea seriously kick his *** dude don't let him touch your girl.

Answer 15

Well if her parents are not doing much, then what she can do is either go to the polices, or else go to social services - i know this sounds weird but this is a case of domestic violence and it should stop. Be there for her, she will need you a lot.

Dont try to beat the guy up or something, cos you will only worsen the situation, not that you are not up to, but with violence you wont change his attitude

Answer 16

beat the **** out of him, thats your girl man....

Answer 17

i think i would call the police the next time i was on the phone with her and her brother hit her maybe they could get it through to her thick headed parents that it is not ok for people to get treated like that. and maybe the plice will take his A** to jail and teach him a life lesson!  good luck to you all

Answer 18

call the cops and file a report against him,,, especially if you try to defend her and he hits you,,, go straight to the police and file a report and get his tushy put in jail for assault

Answer 19

have you told your parents? do that, or if they're not supportive, go to a school counsellor or a teacher. Keep telling someone until you are heard. You're doing a good thing =)

Answer 20

Make sure you get the drop on him, hit him in the throat as hard as you can.  When he falls to the ground (trust me, he will) kick him in the ribs, not hard.  It will scare the h**l out of him and not do permanent damage.  After, tell him next time you'll end his life.

Answer 21

If you tell a teacher, school counselor, doctor, or clergy, they are required by law to report this to child protective services. I would suggest you do this, because your gf will be damaged for life if this continues. It has to stop and you can help her by doing this.