My girlfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half now. Shes a little younger than me, and is in her first semester of college. Her parents are divorced, and her mother is an alcoholic who emotionally and sometimes physically abusers her daily. Shes afraid to leave the house because of what her mother will do to her later. She doesnt have a car becuase her father just doesn't seem to care and is very busy with his job. Her mother is just too lazy and drunk to ever help her get a car either. The rest of her family knows its going on, but don't want to spend the time to help her. I actually got her to contact officials about the physical abuse thing, but the people were morons and somehow let her mother find out that her daughter turned her in. This only caused more problems in the long run. She feels trapped in her own home and cant afford a car. Its up to her family to get her one, and everyones just taking there time and putting the issue on the back-burner. SHE NEEDS ONE NOW. I have told her im here for her numerous times, and i care about her so much.
Now shes getting so depressed that she takes her anger out on me for no reason, and then trys to blame me for the arguements. She gets all worked up and starts crying, then says things to may that really hurt my feelings too. I feel like shes bringing me down with her. I dont want to put up with this anymore, but i cant break up with her becuase i love her so much. Im generally a wise person, but i just cant figure out what to do. I thought about maybe going to her family, maybe her aunts and uncles, and telling them that she needs help becuase shes depressed, but im afraid that just might anger the family becuase they look at it like thats strictly family business and none of mine. They dont understand that its affecting me too. My life is stressful enough right now between working full time and going to college full time. I know that if my gf can get out of this mess she would be happy.
Someone please help me, i dont know what to do. I really am afraid that if i leave her, she will kill herself, shes already talked about it, and tried it. She doesnt have money to seek proffessional help either.
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