My gf just broke up with me in a fricken myspace email, wat should i say to her?

Question

we had been dating for about 14 months. the last few months had been h**l all on her account i tried SO hard to make it work. she told me she never cared about me and she hates me and theres no point in trying to make it work b/c she can't stand me. i was like i don't even know wat to say to you. then she said then don't, lets just leave it at that. well i can't just leave it at that, but i don't even know where to begin. wat should i say to her and please no f*cking g*y bashing i just need help.

Answer 1

If she were mature She;d break up with u in person. She sounds like a child..saying those things. Tell her u tried your best.. and shes incapable of appreciating everything your done for her. why would she hate u? did u hurt her???..

Answer 2

Then you should just forget her if shes that mean to you.

Answer 3

If she said that to you and hurt you do you think that she is a nice person?  Be honest with yourself dear as this will help.  If you don't think she is a nice person stop the relationship.  There are 6.5 billion people in the world and while you might think she is the only one for you right now it never works that way in the end.  I have thought the same thing about guys as I am g*y and there is always another KIND PERSON you can become close too.

Peace and love

Answer 4

that is cruel what she did.  You are best to move on. Sorry if that isn't waht you want to hear.  She sounds very disrespectful of your feelings, and is very nasty.  why bother persuing that?  have dignity and do not respond.  it is hard, it is awful, it hurts, but it is the best thing you can do .  Be the better person and leave with your dignity in tact.  Let her go.  and this, by the way, is unforgiveable.

Answer 5

She was being cruel in the email it sounds, I wouldn't give her the satisfaction and I wouldn't email her back.

Answer 6

I wouldn't respond to her email but that is me.  Obviously you don't need someone like that in your life.  

Answer 7

tell her calmly, thanx for showing her immaturity, by trying to put down a guy, "she" choose to go out with. Ask her to seriously think about what it says about her.

    Tell her you appreciate, that she finally showed how truly little class she had, so you can set your sights higher next time.

    Tell her you hope that someday, she develops the maturity and skills to deal with ppl, rather than showing the ugliness, that comes so natural to her.

     Then block her and communicate no more. Because she will be more than slightly hostile and there nothing more infuriating to a woman, than not being able to have her say or not being heard !!!

Answer 8

don't say anything and just let it be. if she is immature enough to break up with you over myspace after a long relationship then she is not a girl that you need to waist your time on.  

Answer 9

Well obviously this girl has cared about you in the past or she wouldn't have stuck with you for 14 months.Obviously alot of s h i t might have been going on in her life and obviously you tried to support her but in the end if she saying what she's saying obviously isn't ready for the "burden" of a relationship.And even if you love her you need to let her go because at the end of the day if you realy lover her you need to let her go.

Answer 10

listen hard to the facts, she wants nothing to do with you, anyone who finishes with their partner in a "website whatever" is lowest of the lower, you deserve much better respect than that, theres no point in persuing the facts, leave alone and move on, have respect for yourself... and not her...she does not deserve it

Answer 11

Tell her it is her loss and move on.  You can find someone better.

Answer 12

That was a coward way for her to end the relationship.  Although I know your hurt by what & how she did it, you should have some self-respect for yourself and don't respond to her. If someone wants to leave your life, then let them!  No need to try to hang on to someone who doesn't want to be with you. You are much better than that.  Your girlfriend was not your be all and end all.  Yes it hurts but as time goes on it will get better. Seem to me she did you a favor. You don't deserve to be treated like that. You deserve and can get better. Wishing you a healing to your broken heart.  

Btw, Don't feel bad, it happens to the best of us!  When someone leaves your life, they just pave the way for someone else better to come in :) Hang in There!  

Answer 13

she's a cheap a$$ hoe that broke up in an email. u shouldnt worry much about her hun

Answer 14

if she did it on myspace email then she doesnt matter tell her to go f herself

Answer 15

it doesn't seem like yall had that great of a relationship; and she's immature for not breaking up with you in person, and did it over freckin myspace, that's pathetic. i'm sorry but it is.

just try and move on.

things will get better.

Answer 16

my girlfriend did this to me. i am straight though, but i think it is really stupid when girls do it that way. it just shows that they cant stand up to you and say it to your face, that they are afraid to tell you i guess. and if i were you i would just leave it alone.

Answer 17

tell her to p**s off.......a myspace email shows her maturaty level.....why do you even have myspace? its a waste of time

Answer 18

Ignore her..............give HER the silent treatment.................thats the best way to hit her in the gut.

Answer 19

dont let her see that it bothers you...move on to another girl and dont be afraid to show off your new girl around town ;)

Answer 20

Tell her that only an inconsiderate ***** would break up online.

Answer 21

kill the *****

Answer 22

Don't waste your time on her. She obviously never cared about you or your relationship and you trying to talk to her will only make you look pathetic. Just give it time and you will move on.  

Answer 23

that she is not mature enough for you and she just proved it. what a coward

Answer 24

Nicky there is nothing you can say. You really don't want to be with someone who feels this way about you. You need to do what all of us have to do when a relationship is over and that is to move on. You need to let it go. You need to go out with your friends and have fun and some day you will meet someone who really loves you and when someone really loves you they would never hurt you like that.

Answer 25

thats so shallow.

you deserve better if she broke up by email because its so low.

Um its really up to what you want to say because

no one can tell you with out knowing the full story.

But say something like how shallow and low she has gone to dump someone over email and that if shes going to do something as stupid as that then your deserve way better.

hope i helped a bit. (;

Answer 26

tell her that it is her loss and tell her that you'll find another girlfriend even better than her

Answer 27

No revenge, no hurtful words back. Just send ONE mature message back saying- good luck then. Goodbye, and simply move on!!!!

Answer 28

she seems like a *****, so you should say "**** you" and move on :)

Answer 29

i wouldnt say anything or if u feel like u have to say something just tell her to chill out talk to you when she feels better but dont beg her to like u again cuz then youll seem desparate

Answer 30

ask her why she just couldn't tell you to your face.  and if she didn't like you why didn't she break up with you sooner.

Answer 31

If you have a phone number for her (I assume you do) I would call her to make sure that her account didn't get hacked and that it's not someone else messing with you using her account.

I know that your heart is broken but you owe it to yourself to move on.  There is no reason for you to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you.