My gf walked out on me 7 weeks ago...?

Question

Its been 10 yrs, we are each others 1st love. She got sick of waiting for me to propose, I was going to do it soon and ive got a ring. She knows this, and ive told her how much she means to me any free advice would be good thanks. She has told me she doesnt love me any more!! I am finding it near impossible to just move on, she is my world it just sucks that i havent shown her that recently, its just so easy to start taking things for granted after 10 yrs though!! She has said she wishes that i switch could be turned on so she loved me again. My mate told me about love spells, do they work and what are some consequences??

Answer 1

Forget the spells...you had yer chance....at some point you must have known it was done.Time to move on bud

Answer 2

you need to propose man....10 years is a long time to keep your woman waiting...love spells? why would you even consider something like that? nothing but superstitious garbage made to cheat the naive out of their money....up there with astrology...maybe if you hide your feelings for her a bit then she'll be intrigued by it and wonder why you don't miss her so much...i dunno

Answer 3

Well, I don't think a love spell will work, but i can give you a little advice, I don't think she lost any love for you, she just needs to be reassured that you are going to be there for her, and please, Ask her to marry you!!! I waited almost 4 years for my husband to propose to me, that was a killer, cause I thought he didn't want to get married, and that is probably what she was thinking!

Answer 4

Spells don't work as there is no such thing as magic.  If it's been 10 years and she is saying that she does want to find what used to be there then it does sound like there is hope.  You need to rediscover the things that drew you together in the first place and have kept you together, and also work on not taking things for granted - treating every day as precious and as if it might be the last.

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Answer 5

It sounds like you have a manhood problem. If you'd had a pair you would have taken some sort of action when the time was right. Grow some balls man and maybe next time you're in love you'll step up to the plate and take a swing before the game is over.

Answer 6

Hmm....no wonder my mum keeps telling me to never stay in a relationship too long (i.e: 2 or 3 years is max!)

Anyway, I'm sorry to hear about what happened!!

Are you completely sure she no longer loves you? It could be that she is confused.

One thing that I can tell you for sure: NEVER even think of using any love spells. That essentially means forcing your love on her, which is not a good thing at all. Let God (or if you're not religious, the universe) decide everything for you and let things happen naturally. If it's meant to be, it will be.

I wish you all the best!!

Answer 7

Okay first of all, love spells? Really? I can't emphasize this enough, those are obviously complete quackery! If love was that easy we'd all know about it. You are obviously a little desperate, I understand. Love hurts, having your heart broken sucks, especially when you've been dating for so long.

But maybe it's not too late to fix your relationship (without love spells). Try to talk to her. Ask her why she doesn't feel the same way anymore. Would she feel the same way if you had proposed. If you think it has something to do with you not making enough of an effort try making some grand embarassing gesture that'll show how you feel.

Sometimes there's just no explaining it though, you fall out of love with someone and in that case there is no choice but for you to move on. I know it's easier said than done. But try to be positive. You say this is your first love which always makes it harder since you've never had to move on before and you've been with one person only, and for so long that it makes it seem as if there might not be anyone else out there. Don't commit to anything for a while, just try some meaningless flirting and who knows you may find someone you really like. Just don't jump into a new relationship right away.

Answer 8

Sorry, this won't work.  You do not want a person who will obey you and not love you.

You need to heal your heart and move to a new love.

That is the best "magic" for you.  So to do so, you must lovingly release her to the world and open your heart to recieve the "right" woman for you.

No doubt  in my mind or hers, that "She" was not the one for you.  The minute you "know your mate" is the minute you can't live without them.  10 years is proof that YOU did not want her. A Ring is only a symbol and the fact it was never on her hand speaks volumes to all "wise woman" everywhere.

Blessed be to you.

Get some guidence and grow from this and get rid of the ring, it can not be recycled.  If you want her to have it as a parting gift, that would be great.  Or return it. NOW.

Answer 9

Treat her to a lovely night out... remind her of what she used to love about you. Propose and she might fall in love again. 10 years is quite long and I doubt that she could refuse that offer.

Good luck!

Answer 10

Sorry dear, you really need to move on with your life.  When did you decide to buy the ring and propose?  Was it when she left?  If she comes back is she going to get treated like the first 10 years?   No spells are going to work on this one.  Only time will fix this.  So move on with your life and let her move on with her.  If you are meant to cross paths in the future you will.  You may go around a corner tomorrow and meet the girl you will spend the rest of your life with and will propose within 10 weeks.  I've seen that happen more often than not.  Be happy of the time you had together and learn from it.

Answer 11

7 weeks huh?

Perhaps indecisiveness is the problem.

Love potions were simply aphrodesiacs you can chant naked over it under a full moon with a dead cat and it won't change anything.

Potions are simply what we call drugs.

Answer 12

Love Spells? I thought only women did that! You got some great alternatives to get your girl back and with natural magic of love.

Answer 13

No love spell do not work, actually there are no such thing. You cannot make her love you man, you have to just let her go. If she is going to get that feeling back she will come back on her own. Then you know the love is real. Give it some time, and if she doesn't come around, move on.

Answer 14

Forget "love spells" and buy her

-flowers

-dinner

-a pre-engagement ring >that way she knows you're being serious without you having to go all-out on a REALLY expensive ring.

Love spells could work, but you'd just be manipulating things to your advantage, she wouldn't love you of her own free will.

Flowers, dude. Flowers.