My gf wants to "bang" me so she can get more attention from me and become popular with my friends? I said no.?

Question

She's doing it for the wrong reason. As much as me and my friends do think about s*x. I don't want to hurt her and she's going to regret it. She's just turned 14. She's too young. She doesn't bang me so I will spend more time with her. I'm a busy guy. Varsity Football. Varsity Basketball. Varsity Soccer. President of Debate Club. It was tough to say no(hormones, make boys want s*x so much) but I just want the best for her. It's what benefits her life not mine. And my varsity football friends are saying how stupid i was and i should have said yes. I don't want to be like them. They go out with girls just for s*x and then they dump them. I don't want to be like that. So people, what do you think of my decision?

Answer 1

Well, you asked so... ARE YOU STUPID? do you know how many losers dreamed of girls wanting to have s*x with them and you get that opportunity and you pass it up because you want to be FRIENDS!?!?! do you realize that she just wants to be a  friend TOO!?!  No friend is better than the one who wants to suck your dlck.

Answer 2

Respectable. s*x is just a momentary high that people sacrifice their lives for in the long run. It won't do either of you any permanent good...just another narcotic substance to forget about life for a little while.

Answer 3

you are one of the few guys in the world who have a good head on their shoulders...the girl needs to sit back and think of your feelings too...you made the right decision on every level...no matter what they say...since you didnt want to...you saying no was the best answer...and you being able to say it with all the other things playin in ur mind...way to go!  

Answer 4

i wish more guys were like you.. i think its the sweetest thing i heard of in a long time way to go and dont listen to those friends of yours they will eventually grow up and care for someone to like you do for her..

Answer 5

That is a wise decision,  She wants s*x for all the wrong reasons.  She needs to get involved in some extracurricular activites to keep her mind off of s*x.

Answer 6

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6QfnPYwB...

SEE 2 PARTS TO THIS VIDEO EVERYONE URGENT

GOD BLESS, STAY STRONG DONT BE LIKE THE FILTHY SOCIETY COMITING ADULTERY, GOD WILL DESTROY THEM

Answer 7

you are one of the "amazings" most girls only dream about. you did a fantastic thing, saying no. dont give in to her, good job. and good luck with everything...

Answer 8

i think you're decision is very good (:  you sound like you really care for her, and i agree with you, that is exactly the wrong reason. you sound really mature. :)

Answer 9

wow, i'm proud of you. she is too young and she shouldn't be doing it for that reason.

it is hard to say no... my boyfriend & i have been dating over a year and haven't had s*x because of his religion.

but she doesn't need to "bang" you to get your attention... she should just go to your games and stuff

Answer 10

watch out. she may be a w***e or on the road to becoming one. only people that want to fit in will do whatever to be accepted and that's not cool. if you really like her you need to talk to her about that cuz she's taking the wrong road. tell her to accept herself and not woory about your friends. they are your friends not hers.

Answer 11

AWWWWWWWWWW   thats real nice your sweet and she's kinda imature if she only wants to "BANG" you so that she can get popular  thats so lame!!!!!

Answer 12

Just geve her all of u and more in tell she can't take it anymore in less she is a little girl and then u better want tell she is 18 years old because u could go to jail

Answer 13

Sounded like you did the right thing to me, you obviously care for her.  After all s*x should be done because you love someone and want to show it, not for reasons such as that.  And I hope that she'll understand why you said no.  Though it also sounds to me like you don't spend enough time with her, being so busy.  If you want to maintain a relationship you need to put ALOT of time and effort into it, just like you would into your various higher curricular activities.  Well Hope I helped : )

Answer 14

Wow. Dude, your a real gentleman. Good job and that and know that that was the BEST possible decision that anyone could have made and you did good by doing it

Answer 15

I think you made a very responsible decision that many other guys wouldnt make. So it shows how mature you are...if she tries to leave you let her go shes not worth it and you cant change her mind. The right time will come just be patient and dont fall into peer pressure and you will be happy you didnt and also be living your life with no regrets

Answer 16

Seriously, "My Varsity Football Friends?" Sounds like you're making this up.....laterz

Answer 17

Your decision was responsible and definately the best choice!  You're doing what's best for her and you as well.  If she really respects your descision, she will wait.  Congrats on not being like your football buddies. =]

Answer 18

That girl is so dangerous! That girl is so dangerous! Tat girl is os dngerous! IU love the sobg

Answer 19

Your heart is in the right place. Tell your g/f what you need from her is loyalty, attention and affection. s*x is a big distraction and can drag down your life. When you see her give her a very warm hug, tell her she looks beautiful and you are lucky she cares about you. That will go a long way toward satisfying her. Girls her age are VERY horny and VERY eager for s*x, that is just the way it is.

Answer 20

Well, i love to have a guy like you (:

& It was the right decition right know she will regret it later and blame you for saying yes. She might be pissed now but later in life she will thank you. Your friends might call you a wuss but hurting a girl you care about isn't the right thing to do to get purps from the guys.

Hope this helps(:

*Katie

Answer 21

u seem so sweet 2 me. and you were right to say no. she's wants it for all the wrong reasons. u did the right thing.

Answer 22

You are a dream guy!

It is awesome you respect her and one day she will appreciate it.

If you feel that she only wants that from you then I suggest to dump her! LIKE NOW!

Find a girl who respects you and her self :D

Answer 23

awww!

i deffinatly think you are making the right choice.

nothing makes a girl feel worse then if she lost it too soon to the wrong guy.

saying no to her

gives her time to think about it more.

but she probably does feel unimportant since you have so much to do

and she cant be with you alot.

Answer 24

omfg i wish u were mine! u made a GREAT choice and i applaud u for it !

keep rockin and do what ur doing

answer mine please

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Answer 25

aww! very respectable! thumbs up!

Answer 26

Good call on that man.Football players are pretty stupid and talk a lot of ****(but not all).All your friends will say "you should have tapped that dude,are you g*y?"

You just have to know you did the right thing and didn't do it for the completely wrong reasons.

Answer 27

You made the right choice. Me and my friends want a guy like you :)

You are so mature and I applaud you for that. You are a real man and don't let any other BOY tell you that you aren't because you are :)

Answer 28

It was the best decision you could of made. If she can't respect that you respect her, then she isn't the kind of girl you want to be dating,

Answer 29

i think you and i are like the only guys that actually care about girls' morals. even tho the girl wants to, you know it will hurt her. i think you made a really good choice. good job dude! lol.

Answer 30

you where really mature and youre totally right,

there arent manny guys like you, so ur girl friend should be thankful.

besides when something is done just to do it, its memorable but in an awful way like if it was a waste, so if you would of done it then it would of been a bad memory and she would of regreat sooner or later, not only for rushing it but for not taking you serious, and enjoy what she could of enjoyed when the time was right.

besides ppl like you dont need to mess up to learn..why have those bad memories of whos it was before you knew.. but to have memories of how wonderful it was from the start;)

Answer 31

Your a good guy, and good guys always finish last.  

I would say your in the right, 14 is way to young (How old are you?), and you also don't want to have to worry about a baby.