My girl friend is more intelligent and educated then me,Tell me is it right that may i do marriage with her ?

Question

My girl friend is more intelligent then me, Tell me is it right that will i do marriage with her ? She promiced me that she will teach me, she told me that she will die if i willn't marry her, she openly kissed me in market in frount of people. She can't live without me. now tell me reality : -

Is it good that she will teach me ?

Is it good that will I marry with intelligent girl ?

Is it good that I feel Shy after marry that she is more intelligent then me ?

Is it good that She always kissing me in frount of people ( in market ) ?

Is it good that she is more educated then me?

TEll me your's way after reading full question.

My final answer of my question is that i willn't marry her.

Thanks

Answer 1

i know you feel as though your gf is better off than you, its not true. She may be a highly educated woman but there is a lot to learn in this world, way more than things like math or sciene or how to do things. Im sure there are things you know that she doesnt. If you feel as though she is real teachy and makes you feel stupid why dont you politely tell her your fear of this?  

Answer 2

after marriage the life gets different more dificulties more  problems starts. Do you think she has selfconfidence and enough experience to deal with hard situation or she will probebly get tired of teaching you how to be intelligent ?Maybe now you are the only one she wants to be beside but how about later in social life she wont feel she is living with someone who always needs to be take care like a kid and she deserved someone with more high education to be proud of.Do you feel you are enough intelligent to keep up with her in future? learn new things get experience to be beside her ,not down on the floor ?if you feel you can help yourself to open new doors of  progress learn to be just beside her that she can make proud of you amoung  people my answer is yes marry her why not if you dont feel you have enough self confidence to step high dont marry her becuse somewhere sometime you will stop and she will feel regret why she chose you she could deserved someone better.

Answer 3

i went out with a guy for a year who i was more intelligent than and whilst it was fine for a while, eventually it became a barrier because i felt that there was limited topics of conversation. for eg, i would ask him what he thought about something in the news, and he would be oblivious to what i was talking about. i think it can work if you are honest with each other - does she feel that it is a problem? if she does, then my advice would be just to try and be aware of what is going on - it doesnt matter so much that you are less educated than her, but it will matter if you cant talk about things that are happening around you. read a paper, watch the news and im sure you will see that you can cope easily with knowing less about things than her - it will just be knowing nothing about them that causes problems.

Answer 4

Yeah is good  ...  why don't you do a marriage with her?    :)

Answer 5

Do you love her?  She OBVIOUSLY loves you.  The ONLY way to insure there's no differences in a marriage is to clone yourself.  Even IDENTICAL TWINS aren't 100% alike.  If you can't accept her differences, you're nowhere near ready for marriage.  And by the way, there's not just one kind of 'intelligence'. Remember, we all have our strengths and weaknesses.

Answer 6

Yes you should marry her you can learn from her and she will learn from you life is about learning there is an old saying you learn something new every day  

Answer 7

Sorry, but imo people have to be of equal backgrounds, intellect, ages, ambitions (including whether to have children or not), even equal nationalities...differences can be attractive, but irritate after a while...

Answer 8

It doesn't matter if your not as clever as her, like she said she will teach you. She loves your for who you are not how much brain power you have. It is good  that she's going to teach you. Its good that she shows her affection for you, sometimes it's very hard to be that open towards people, which shows how much she loves you. The fact that she is better educated than you gives you a chance to learn and better yourself, so don't worry knowledge can be learned, you don't want to lose the opportunity of being with the one you love.  

Answer 9

everythjng is fair in love and war.you dont have to develope a complex

Answer 10

I do not feel anything will come in between you else than your own pride. If you build a wall of pride in between two of you this would be the beginning of the end. Sharing knowledge is good. Don't ever take it in a negative sense from who so ever you get it. What if your kids are intelligent than you two. Will you feel inferior in front of them. You will accept it and feel happy for the situation when they talk something which makes you feel the generation gap. You are lucky mate that you have a girl who loves you so much and cares a **** about the society. Leave back the thought of male dominance in a married life. These are stories of the past. The latest statistics say that when husband and wife both are earning the family grows 78% richer. Think about it. You should feel blessed for having her in your life.

All the best !

Answer 11

This is not a good match, you will be forever trying to compete with her in more ways than one.

She will know that she is more intelligent than you and may lose respect for you in the end.

My advice would be not to marry, but you will do what you want to anyway.

Good luck.