My girlfriend and I are having a lil bit of a problem HELP!! part 2 ?

Question

hm I'm new on here and not sure if I can add onto a different question so i'm going to add on here....I asked the last question stupidly forgetting ya'll don't know all of my personal life...so I have helped with her cousin many times i've hooked her up with a lot of my friends but for whatever reason they aren't into her that way or they break up then my girlfriend wants me to talk to them and tell them they're being stupid and that they need to reconsider sometimes it works...so i'm helping with the cousin problem and i have no problem with the no s*x thing i respect it but I hate that she teases me i mean i understand if she doesn't want to give it up and teasing every once in a while is fine but everytime then walking away....so that's what really is bugging me not the fact she won't give it up SORRY FOR NOT BEING CLEAR ok with that stated....any advice?

Answer 1

Sounds like she's not worth it. :)

Answer 2

it sounds like your girlfriend has more than just s*x on her mind when the two of you are being intimate. A lot of women can multitask like this, often causing them to lose focus and make s*x more of an "I thought I wanted it, but I think I have other things I should be doing" kinda deal. The good thing is that this usually means that she's comfortable with you. Try doing other things to help her out - obviously you can't make someone like her cousin. If you help out with other things (i.e. work around the house if you live together), she'll have more time to think about her cousin when you're not being romantic.

If that 's not the case, she might be insecure with some part of her self image. She wants to know that you still find her as attractive as you did when you were first together. Try giving her random little comments when she's not expecting them.

Hope that helps a bit!

Answer 3

so you are helping with her cousin, good.

you don't like her to tease because she don't like to have sax with you? then...

1. tell her not to tease you.

2.either that or find a gf that will have sax with you; or

3. marry her.

good luck!

Answer 4

Cant really understand your problem