My girlfriend and I broke up couple days ago and she just wants to be friends now. I dont want that I want to?

Question

be more than just friends. But since she doesnt want to be more than just friends I don't want to be just friends with her. I either want to get back in a realtionship or just not talk to her for a while and maybe later on become just friend again. I try to tell her this but something keeps holding me back . i really dont want to hurt her. I have feelings for her and want to be with her again also. How do i tell her?...i would appreciate getting suggestions of what exactly i could say to her. Thank you

Answer 1

tell her that.

Answer 2

"It was good till it lasted. It lingers on in my mind still. YOU linger on in my mind still. It will be some time before I get comfortable with my feelings. Then we will be friends. All in good time. Not now."

Write it and mail her.

Answer 3

You talk about hurting her, I would think when you broke up that was painful and at this point nothing else would hurt...  I think that you have to look out for your own feelings...and just let her know that you still care for her, and for that reason do not think that you can be friends right now...you need time to clear your head.....

Answer 4

Tell her... its best to be honest!  

Answer 5

Be honest.  Remind her that friendship often ends in love, but love rarely in friendship.  

Explain to her how much it pains you and you can't handle being just friends.

Hang in there bud.  It will get better.