My girlfriend and I want to stop using condoms. Any advice on other birth controls?

Question

We're both legal, over 18. We can't use insurance, and parents can't find out. We're leaning on the patch over the pill. We're just scared about using pharmacies because of computer records. Both from strict religious families.

Answer 1

well i was on the pill and i have a 3 year old and well my sister patch well her little boy is 3 also and well they are no 100 percent ways besides not having s*x and you will have to have a pharmacy to fill them and they are not cheap and well with strict religious families sounds like you should talk to someone about having s*x as if she is to get pregnant can not be that good for you and well and well the patch has a recall and can call people to get really sick and die so i would still with what has worked so far as that method can fail at anytime

Answer 2

she can get a shot or an implant in her arm so she wont forget to take the pill, but dont rely on just the pill though you still should use condoms as the more protection the better or just dont have s*x

Answer 3

i use the pill but you have to remember to take it everyday.  that is difficult for some people.  also, you should still use condoms.  the pill, patch, shot, etc. dont protect you from stds.  while im sure you too are in a very happy faithful relationship, you can never be too safe.

Answer 4

If your determined to have s*x despite what your family says I would recamend you go to Plan Parent Hood. You don't have to have insuranse and they will educate you on different birth control methods and risks. They will also give your girlfriend a physical and let you know whats best for her body. They also determine how much you pay by how much you make.

Answer 5

I was in a relationship like that once at your age. I would reccommend is your have to go behind peoples backs to do this then maybe your too young to be doing it in the first place.

Answer 6

She needs to get on the pill, shot, patch, or something. I was on the pill faithfully and never got pregnant. My fiance and I didn't use condoms after that.