My girlfriend chooses what I wear?

Question

my girlfriend picks out all the clothes I wear. Some of the items she picks out are feminine, like slacks that zip in the back, pink or floral tops and she has even made me wear panties. It is embarrassing when out in public or when her friends come over and tease me and make me show my underwear. I've tried to talk to her but she gets mad and threatens to leave me until I apoligise. I dont want to break up and am not sure what to do?

Answer 1

I think the best thing for you to do is to talk to her. If your embarrassed by the clothes or the 'panties' then tell her. I know that you prolly wouldn't dress that way or you wouldn't be complaining! Explain it to her and then show her some things you would wear that aren't disgusting! ♥Basketball♥

Answer 2

wow your a pansy. maybe you should wear a skirt or some cute dresses

Answer 3

well,you must not be afraid of breaking up.

but try to tell her what to wear.make her do the things she asks you to do.

she doesn't have the right to order you what to wear and what not to wear

Answer 4

Dude I give my bf style advice but she is crossing the line. You should never wear something you are uncomfortable in.

You need to sit her down and have a talk. If she won't listen then you should definetly break up. You may not want to but it is not healthy for her to treat you that way. There are soooo many other girls out there who will LOVE you the way you are!!

Also get a GQ magazine or other men's style mag to show her men's fashion and she'll see that her fashion ideas are waaaayyy off the mark.

Answer 5

talk to her

Answer 6

how bout u tell her to step off! U dont make her wear what u want her to wear, well at least i dont think so. U need to take some control and nicely tell her u wanna pick ur own d**n clothes! lol

as long as ur not wearing dirty, or hideous, mis matching clothes, uve gotta have ur own style and wear what u want 2!

Answer 7

tell her to back off. if i was your gf i would like you for who you are. i wouldnt want to change someone. turn the tables around on her and tell her to stop or you are leaving and if she is tell you she will leave you, it must not be that serious because if a girl REALLY likes you, she wont leave you for a stupid reason. and she is not worth it.

Answer 8

YOU should do these things:

a)  LEAVE HER IMMEDIATELY.  A MAN is the one that gets to control the different aspects of a relationship.  NOT a WOMAN.  Women are not meant to command men around like that.  We're meant to respect you and listen to you.

b)  BE A MAN for Christ's sake!  Jeeez what's wrong with you?  No REAL man would DARE allow himself to be *********-e-d out like that.  You're a punk and you're acting like a p-u-s-s-y.  MAN UP.  No woman should be able to do this to you.  And wearing panties might as well make you g*y, especially with pink and floral tops.  That's f-a-g-g-y for real!

c) NEVER apologize to your mannish boyfriend.  That chick is DISGUSTING and don't deserve anything from anyone, especially not an apology from you for something SHE did.

SHE should:

a)  Stop wishing she were a man, or just get it over with an have a s*x change.  She wishes she were a man if she wants to see you in panties and orders you around.

b)  Find herself a girlfriend to be with.  She don't need a boyfriend.

Get some d**n sense, boy!  You're either into being bitched around and punked around like some sissy a-s-s girl, or you're a man.  Which one is it?  (A real man wouldn't have to be asked this question!)

Answer 9

just have a disscussion about how you really feel about those clothes and just get dressed without her help

Answer 10

she is not logic,....she does not have this right to obligate you !

Answer 11

Shes WAY to controlling

Answer 12

your how old?? you might be a little to old for people to dress you!! dont let her!!!! OK GUYS SHOULD NOT WEAR PANTIES!! tell her you want to wear guy clothes or clothes that fit your style!! if it gets to out of hand your gonna have to let her go!

Answer 13

Aw! That's cute that she likes you, but she's over done it. If you don't want her to do it, tell her. If she tells you to apologize, then she is wrong. SHE needs to apologize. You haven't done anything wrong. If she brakes up with you because you don't want to be tortured, well, do you really want to go out with her? Good luck, have fun, and stay beautiful ♥

Answer 14

yeah, that's a cruel thing to do.

and she's blackmailing you too.

why are you with her?