My girlfriend found her Faith and doesn't want to have s*x anymore, what do i do?

Question

we have been dating for a while now and we have grown strong, yet, weak...for me at least. you see, we had s*x on the night i asked her out (ok not the best idea but we did) and it was because i cared for her a lot. BUT we both didnt tell each other certain things, i didnt tell her i gave up my abstinence for her (cuz i said ive been with girls before to make her think i knew wut i was doing) and she didnt tell me she believed in "no s*x before marriage". we've been having s*x frequently until she started saying she was uncomfortable with going against her beliefs because she found god again. now shes asking me if i love her enough to wait till we're married, if not, then she cant be with me. it meant so much to me to give up my virginity to her and now i have to say that it was a mistake and stop having s*x? its so confusing! i dont know wut to do anymore, im 18 and shes 18, and we're expecting a child in 6 months. i love her with all my heart but im not christian and i dont believe that this is the right way. why should i be the one to sacrifice? and its not just s*x, its any intimate contact, and no p**n (which i already gave up), and no masturbating. NOW she expects me to stop smoking!!! why cant there be a compromise or sumthing? I NEED HELP!!!!

Answer 1

She needs to understand that you can't put a cork back in a champagne bottle.  God knows what you've done, and the baby bump will announce it to the rest of the world.  You both have to realise that once you are in this position, it makes a mockery of the "no s*x before marriage" deal.  I think that God would disapprove of the hypocrisy, rather than the s*x.