My girlfriend got pregnant and turned into a feminist???

Question

She used to be so chill and now it's like she hates me for being a guy and doesn't want me to help her with anything. What is going on???

Answer 1

Hormones are happening my friend.  

Answer 2

welcome to pregnancy;) lol i was really hard on my husband in the beginning of this pregnancy but i mellowed out a lot (32 weeks) so this to shall pass :)

Answer 3

Hormones are probably a large part of that, but there are a few other things that could be causing it:

Knowing she's going to have a baby (and a baby outside of marriage) could cause several problems for her, ethically, practically, financially and otherwise. It could be that she's failing to recognize her own responsibility for the situation and is putting it on you (or she does recognize her responsibility, and as well as coming down hard on herself, she's putting the 50% that is rightfully yours on you). Coming down hard on herself could also put her in an irritable mood.

The only other thing I can say is this:

There are few better ways to shaft a meaningful relationship than by sleeping with your girlfriend before you're married.

Answer 4

I've never been pregnant, but my sister-in-law lived with us for 7 months during hers. She's usually a laid-back, cool girl, but all I can say is WOW! One minute she would be fine, and the next she would be freaking out because someone was cooking something that smelled weird to her, someone left their coat hung on a chair, etc. Just ride it out and realize that she's having her body hijacked by the baby for the moment.  It'll all turn out ok in the end.

Answer 5

Time to use the ejector seat on that relationship man!

Answer 6

Yeah dude its hormones.

Just ride it out, she'll only get more angry if you argue with her.

Funnily enough, the pregnant women i've been around(i've been around 4 in my lifetime), none of them were moody or quick to anger in the slightest, it was like they weren't even pregnant(except for the huge belly and swollen b*****s)

Answer 7

Feminists don't hate men, babe, so don't slap that label on her just because she's pregnant.  Pregnancy f*cks with your hormones and makes you moody and short tempered.  Be patient with her.  All you had to do was blow your load.  she has to do the rest so cut her some slack.  

Answer 8

Perhaps she's pissed that you got her pregnant?

bart, again with the "homer wants to see you in the shed" comment.

Answer 9

u're screwed, brother.

Answer 10

You have my sympathy.

Answer 11

Strange.....I married a man and he turned into an a***e the second he put a ring on my finger!

LOL.....hormones hun....be patient with her, it'll pass....or she'll end up hurting you.  Either way, hang in. :)