My girlfriend i need help please

Question

Hi my name is ryan and im 18. my gf is 17 and she lives 3 hours away so we have a long distance relationship. well i just found online she has been talking to other guys. we have been dating for a month and i really like her. I need any advice please im upset and dont know wat to do

Answer 1

Chill man. She has a right to have male friends. As long as she do not cheat on you do get so up tight. Let her know that you trust her or you will loose her for sure. Women will not say with a man who will not allow them to have their own friends. How would you feel if she tried to cut you off from your friends and not allowed to talk to them? As the saying goes it is not a ONE-WAY-STREET. Good Luck.

Answer 2

hey ryan....first thing stop getting upset....talk to her.....about this and how you feel...just make sure u show her u r not possessive. girls usually hate that..if thing don't work out and she wants to dump you chill....there are many fish out there in the sea....and ur young and u have got along way ahead of you

Answer 3

if you love her...just trust her..

Answer 4

she will talk to other guys, that is a givin. just ask her if she is serious about the relationship, but if you dont trust her, (and in a sense you dont since you are asking the question) you may want to rethink the situation before it gets too serious

Answer 5

just play it cool man, as long as shes not cheating you or disrespecting you with these guys , its all okay. Remember, she is with YOU for a reason. She will talk to guys naturally its a part of life but, you shouldn't worry about it if you have trust and faith in her. Good luck

Answer 6

Kill the guy

no dont  

Answer 7

Hay Baby, Relax! Let you friend decide whether she loves you or other guy. If it is you, believe her and relax. If it is the other guy, excuse them and relax.

Answer 8

dont be jealous!!..try to be optimistic..think positive, if you really have a trust on your girlfriend you should'nt think this way..

is it that if she just chat other guys she cheat on you??...maybe chatting other person either female or male is normal..maybe she just have something to say on the guy..so dont worry!!

and if its bothering you alot!..then go and ask her your questions..why is she chatting the guy..do she still loves you?..but dont be envious!

just show her..that you trust her!

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Answer 9

all girls talk to other guys and it's right to get paranoid coz u dnt kno what they're talking about.. flirting or just friendly chat.. i kno how u feel i feel the same with my bf.. he doesn't live 3 hours away but around 2-ish and we've been nearly 6 months.. we're having trouble at the moment but it's normal.. i think u should tell her u really like her and both of u prove to each other that u're going to be faithful and won't cheet or chat up other people.. that's what me and my bf did.. he felt the same as me.. she mite feel the same as u

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hope it helps and good luck romeo [;

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Answer 10

She emotionally cheated on you, so you do have the right to feel angry. But if you want to salvage the relationship I'd have a conversation on what both of your intentions are. maybe you want more serious where she wants more causal, things of that nature.

Hope you can pull it through, or break it off before you get too hurt.

Answer 11

Only a one month old relationship, gf who lives 3 hours away, you describe the relationship as long distance.  

It is highly likely given your ages that she and you will have many more reltionships.  Get real and enjoy being alive.  I daresay you enjoy her company so just enjoy her company when you see her, however I would think twice about bedding her if you think she might be bedding all the other guys too.

17 and 18 years is far too young to be serious.