My girlfriend is jealous of my Friends,both male and females?

Question

I have been dating this girl since 2006 and we are living together,but she doesn't` want me to go out with my Friends,she says that i am too quiet and they are going to spoil my behavior, she is afraid of girls that are close to me..she thought that i beautiful and they are going to propose me..i love her..she love me and i hate this attitude of hatred.she only like my colleague( female)..she is not comfortable with others..please help.

Answer 1

Unfortunately, it sounds like she has a bad sense of security within herself. She is probably afraid of losing you to someone male or female (not in a g*y with if male.  As in you hanging out with him so much you forget her etc).  She needs to have more self confidence.  Try hanging out with her WHILE hanging out with other friends.  Maybe she needs more friends herself.

If it's not that she's too clingy and she wants to be controlling.  If that is the case I'd say you need to find someone more understanding, but it's been 2 years with her, so that would be hard to do.

Try to work it out with her somehow.  Talk to her about it.  you shouldn't be limited to just one person to hang out with for the rest of your life.  You need a social life as well.  If she won't hang out with you and your friends you need to do it on your own.  You don't want to lose your friends because of her.  That makes YOU look like the jerk.

Best of luck to ya!  I hope you can figure something out!