My girlfriend is pregnant?

Question

she's 14 and i'm 15 and she's 7 months pregnant. I've been to all of the dr. apointments with her and stay with her on the weekends to help her out. We are still in school and I have a job after school and don't get home until 9pm everynight. I refuse to be a deadbeat dad and will do anything to make sure we have everything for our child. At first our parents was outraged but soon calmed down after they saw us being responsible. We never meant for this to happen but the condom broke and we didn't want to get a abortion. Anyway is there anything else I can do to help her out in these last 2 months to make her feel more comfortable etc?

She's been in a really bad mood and crying alot lately and it's hurting me to see her this way.

Answer 1

The one thing you for sure got to do is be with her when the baby comes and buy her chocolates and ice creams and try and do anything to make her feel better. Congrats on having a baby!

Answer 2

hormones suck... get used to the crying even more my wifes due date is in 6 days and it seems like all i have to do is look at her and she is crying just tell her you love her and hug her

Answer 3

Oh, God.

that sucks.

well just remind her you love her and that you'll always love her and be with her no matter what.

and bring her chocolate. cuz now i guess she wont care about her weight so just feed her a bunch of **** and she'll be happy.

and make sure her parents know

Answer 4

Bring her flowers for no reason, tell her you love her, buy her chocolates... just little things to say 'i love you'. Congrats on the baby!

Answer 5

i agree with the first girl and the other person, you just keep on comforting her and it's going to be really hard but u know, u seem like u have a good head on ur shoulders. just be there and after the baby's born mostly everything should get remotely better. i hope for the best for you, congrats and good luck

Answer 6

It sounds like you're doing great. She'll appreciate you working later on when she can spend some of the money on the baby. Just do the little things to make her feel better. Bring her ice cream when she's down, rub her back or feet and just ask her what you can do. Just doing that will make a huge difference. Once the baby comes, she's REALLY going to need you...so standby!

Answer 7

rub her back, feet, help her with things, listen to her dont i repeat dont tell her she is being cranky.  and just love her.  seems like you do so just keep on doing what you can.

Answer 8

i may not be a teen mom but i got preg 6 months after my boyfriend and i started dating. an now we have a 4 month old. while i was preg this is what i felt.

she is scared of everything to come. her hormones are going nuts, she is a child still, she is afraid of losing you, she wants to be a good mom, etc. this close to the end of preg is hard because she has a lot on her mind day and night. thoughts fears and everything else. you can say whatever you want to try and calm her but it doesnt stop her mind from thinking what she wants in life. it will get harder after the baby comes until you are both used to the baby.

starting now find something that will help calm her. a massage, a movie (while you still can), a talk at night before bed (let her do all the talking about what is on her mind), a walk, or anything you can think that will relax her.

and as for parenting... buy books and mags or go online so you both can learn and be ready to give your baby the best future. dont just rely on your parents knowledge make your own choices since you are both adults now.

Answer 9

Aww you are such a sweetheart for your age.

Buy her some flowers.

Take her out for dinner or to the movies.

Do fun things with her.

Oh and by the way after she gives birth be really nice to her.

Treat her as if she were a queen.

You dont want her to go through postpartum depression cause thats when you'll be sad.

But anyways I know that you will be the best father any child/kid can have.

=)

Answer 10

John,

I commend you for stepping up to take responsibility and participating in the pregnancy... a commendable feat for any young man in that situation.

I do beleive that you are doing all you can to take care of your gf (having a job to take financial responsibility is another plus)...hormones are running rampant at that point and i'm sure are even more 'out of whack' than they would otherwise...but remember..she is still only 14....still a child herself and i'm sure she's frightened. Being there as an emotional support is all you really can do. I'm sure you feel helpless. Have you both had counseling and parenting classes? Once the baby arrives the challenges will just be 100 fold. You will need knowledge and support to get you both through.

Good luck!

Answer 11

Well first d**n!!!!!!! second relax,

and let me tell you that your going to probably

have to quit school or get home schooling.

. WHY? well because a baby needs

alot of money for pampers, and food, plus your

girl also needs care, and im sure that an after school

job wont fullfill those needs, Good luck.

Answer 12

awww. Its going to be hard for her now and for a while after the birth. Maybe just take some time be with her before the big event.

Answer 13

You are such a nice and resposible person. Okay, when girls get pregnant all their nerves and everything will go haywire as you may have noticed. The best thing you can do is always ask her what she wants-to eat, to go, and try and make her feel important. This is only temporary until baby is born-then you both can focus on baby.