My girlfriend says NO!!!?

Question

My best friend is a girl. We have been friends since we were babies, she was my next door neighbor growing up. I'm going to college now and I'm dating this girl I've thought about asking to marry me. I haven't seen KayLeigh (my friend) in about a year, and she is coming to visit her brother and wants to meet up with me. My girlfriend is crazy jealous. She says if I see her we're over. I know if she got a chance to meet KayLeigh she would understand that we are just friends and how great KayLeigh is and they might even be friends, but my girlfriend doesn't want anything to do with her. WHAT DO I DO? KayLeigh means to much to me to rid her out of my life and Hannah is the love of my life, please help!

Answer 1

You're not a ******* dog and shes a person. You're going to have to make her see that its just a friend. Do you let her go out with guy friends? If not, forget it.

Answer 2

if your girlfriend is trying to choose who your friends will be and you

have not even proposed, then you need to rethink the whole

relationship.  the 'love of your life' sounds like a major control freak.

been there.  done that,  you don't want to go.

Answer 3

Meet kayleigh,

your girlfrind has got to understand your just friends,

it's slefish if she doesn't let you see her,

she is not the boss of you and hopefully soon she will relize that,

please do not not meet up with this girl if your just frineds and you know nothing will happen meet her.  

Answer 4

You are going to have to choose which is more important.  That's just the way it is.  

Answer 5

if hannah truly loved you, she wouldn't stop you from catching up with kayleigh. if you want my advice, dump her. You shouldn't let a girl get between you and your friend like that, or you could go with a different approach: talk your girlfriend into meeting her. if she's rude to your friend, get rid of her and find another girl. jealousy is one of many reasons relationships never work out. good luck by the way.

Ta ta,

C.R.

Answer 6

Think about living the rest of your life with a person jealous of other women around you. And think about how your going to stay away from women to please her women are everywhere. How much could you mean to a person who says over just like that final. THINK!

Answer 7

Make arrangements for a dinner date between the 3 of you.

Explain to Hannah that you'd just like her to meet your childhood best friend.  I think it would be better for her to meet her in person and see that KayLeigh isn't a threat to your relationship with her (Hannah).

If my fiance told me that he'd like to see an old chum I'd be fine with it but I'd want to be there and see what she is like, who knows, maybe we'd turn out to be great friends.  It's happened.

Best wishes!

Answer 8

why would you want to date someone

you've known since you were practically

fetuses? your girlfriend sounds insanely

controlling.

talk to hannah and find out exactly why

she doesn't want to meet kayleigh. what

is she afraid of? does she not want to be

compared? reassure her that SHE'S the one

you love and you think she's prettier, etc.

talk to kayleigh and tell her about the

situation. maybe have her talk to hannah and

tell her she doesn't want to steal you away

or whatever.

then arrange for them to both meet with you

somewhere public. don't talk more to either

of them or one is bound to get jealous.

good luck!

Answer 9

obvoiusly shes crazy and controlling! she wont even let you see your best friend? that means she is insecure and just think about how that will be when your married! i wouldnt do it

Answer 10

Hannah sounds like an imbecile.  I'm guessing she's really hot, because I don't see any other reason you'd want to marry her.  Tell her to deal with it and stop being a jealous b**** or you'll dump her.

Answer 11

Well if your girlfriend truly understands and loves you, then she wouldn't and shouldn't have a problem with it, as long as it is all innocent, which it completely seems like it is!

Just try to have a talk with her again and let her know your intentions...don't focus on the fact that you want them to necessarily be friends, but just say that you would appreciate her at least meeting her.  She should just appreciate the fact that you are tryin to be up front and honest with her...

And of course let your friend know the situation so she isn't caught off guard!!

Good luck!