My girlfriend says she doesn't love me any more. I still love her and wanted to marry her. How can I get her?

Question

She said that she doesn't love me anymore, but it doesn't feel like that, how does she just fall out of love after so long. She said we have nothing in common anymore, which isn't true. I think that she is scared. I am her first love and I think she is worried about not having enough life experience. I just want her back in my arms, every minute with out her is terrible. I can't eat, I can't sleep. I just love her so much.

Answer 1

You can't force someone to be with you. You can tell her how you feel once and then leave it.

Why would you want to waste your time with someone who didn't want you?

Answer 2

I think that space is a good thing. It sounds like you think she is just confused about her right now. I went through the same thing, I was her best friend until she realized I was her man. Time my friend.

Answer 3

I think you need to not push too much.  Sometimes, if you push someone to do something, it back fires.

I would give her some time. I think it will be hard on you, but if she truly loves you, then she'll miss you and want to get back together.

You need to realize that sometimes, couples change and they don't have anything in common anymore.

I don't know how long you were together, but people change.

Answer 4

She doesn't love you back, sorry but thats it.

You have no doubt of your love to her but she has and there is nothing you can do to make her love you back.

If it were true love then she would not be saying those things to you, true love is shared and is not one-sided.

if you can stay friends with her just to have her in your life then you are ruining the rest of your life.

Be strong and take what she says and move on, you never know but if she is scared as you say she is then you leaving her may make her want you.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Leave her be. If she doesnt love you, then there is nothing more to do but to move on. Sometimes this is a sign. Trust me. You will be better with someone else that will love you back as much as you deserve. If you push her, she can come back, but if she isnt happy she will do something worse to you in the future. Sometimes the storm hits you with full force, but after the storm there is always a sunny day.

Answer 6

People can fall out of love, or perhaps if you were her first love, she mistook what love was.  There is no pushing her into getting married so give her some space.  She may change her mind and she may not, nothing on your part is going to change everything.  Tell her you respect her decision and you hope that you two can still stay on good terms.  Love hurts (just like the song says) but it'll get better.  

Answer 7

Honey, you can't force anyone to do anything.  You have to just give her some space and some time and see what happens.  Don't smother her, that will only push her further away.  (Plus, then you get into sticky things like restraining orders and the like, and who needs that?!)

You may not be able to win her back.  Only time will tell.  

Answer 8

wow what can i say , that a huge problem if she doesn't love you any more and you wanted to marry her !! wow then i think the best thing to do is to leave it like that because if she dose not love and you want to marry her she  probly might make you life a living helk in the future so i think you should just leave it the way it is just leave her it might not be the love of your life JUST PRAY FOR ONE!!