My girlfriend steals what can i do?

Question

my girlfriend keeps stealing money from me, she denies it all the time as i live with a friend i have known for 3yrs, he has a job that pays him enough but my girlfrienddon'tt have a job, moneydon'tt go missing when my girlfriend is notaroundd i am so confused what to do as she is 7months pregnant pls help if u can

thanks

Answer 1

talk to her tell her what shes doing is so wrong, but tell her she should hav  asked if she needed money help as u are always there to help as much as u can! and tell her its ruining all trust between u good luck x

Answer 2

umm, you should really confront her about this.. she could be doing things with that money that could harm the baby= she needs a job if you are about to have a kid!

Answer 3

She is 7 months pregnant?  *Sigh....*

Answer 4

There must be a reason for the stealing so you think about why she's doing it..if you have a job and your not giving her half of it..thats what supposed to be doing..if you are giving her money..maybe its not enough and she's too shy to ask you..It's alright if you catch her out with evidence and she's spending it on things for the baby but if she's not you need to confront her about it and tell her that when the baby's older like at nursery (preschool) she should get a daytime job.If the stealing still continues and she denies it, maybe you should leave her and continue to see the baby..of course you will still have to give money to her.

Answer 5

tell her say "honey you are not ever takiing any money from me ever i am sick of you treating me like your bank and you cant go and leave as you please your done with my money go get a job"

Answer 6

Try and catch her out! when she thinks she is alone pop in and then you can be certain, and talk t oher about it! :) x

Answer 7

ditch her, or talk to her, if you know shes stealing from you - seriously, you don't deserve this, but obviously you'll be their for the baby.

Answer 8

oh noes

Answer 9

either set a trap and catch her out then bring up the subject with her again when you have the proof to present her with, or dont leave money laying around for her to have.

Answer 10

If she's 7 months pregnant you should be giving her money anyway.  Why does she need to steal?  Surely when you got her pregnant you should have realised that what was yours became hers, so in effect she cannot be stealing as the money is already hers.

Answer 11

take her to rehab

Answer 12

I agree with the second answer-set up a trap in such a way there is no way she can say she did not steal your money. Something obvious but not too obvious that she doesn't know.

And then confront her as to why she doesn't just ask you.

Answer 13

if she is really stealing money from you and you are sure end the relationship and just make sure that you are always there for your child.

Answer 14

tell her if she wants money she only needs to ask.

hope this helps good luck.

Answer 15

Well for now i guess you could just try to catch her in the act.  I personally feel that if u guys have a stable relationship..she shouldn't be stealing from her man.  I mean...how r u suppose to trust her.  But I hope she starts working after she has the baby and becomes stable.  That way she will have money to spend whenever she wants to.  don't let her keep feeding off of you.  Since you are living with a friend im assuming that you all don't have a house or anywhere to raise your child. so she needs to contribute as well.  if she is just one of those girls who feels like she shouldn't have to work and that you should pay for everything on your own while she  STEALS from you...then leave her.  Leave her but definitly be there for your child.  

Answer 16

Have you considered that perhaps she needs the money to buy things for the baby? Maybe she wouldn't have to steal if you helped her out. Having a baby isn't cheap, and she doesn't have a job, so where is she supposed to get the money to pay for all the essentials?

Help her out, take her shopping and buy some of the things that she needs.

Do you have a job? If so, at least half of that money should go directly to her. This baby is a joint responsibility and both of you need to pay for it/ care for it.

Good luck! :)

Answer 17

Well offer to give her money while she is pregnant and for about a year into the child's life. If it continues to happen put a web-cam up or a camera where you keep your money.

You could get a money box that you can lock and put all your money in there and if you have money out of the money box keep it in your pocket or wallet in you pocket. (Keep the key with you as well.)

When I saved money, no notes just change. I put it in a drawer and when you opened it a alarm went off and you had to know the code to turn the alarm of. I also had paper and a pen so I knew how much money I had and when, I'd write it down when I took some out and when I put some in so I knew how much exactly I had.