My girlfriend talks about s*x over text and says she is ready for it and really up for it. ?

Question

but when i bring it up with her she says "not tonight" or "not yet" please help

Answer 1

She thinks she's ready when she sends you those texts. But when it comes to it, she doesn't feel ready anymore. -Therefore, she isn't ready. (I hope I'm making sense). She's just confused.

Just talk to her about it. Tell her she'll only know if she's ready when she's with you, and that you're happy to wait until she feels that way.

Never pressure a girl. =]

Hope I helped

Answer 2

She maybe feels more confident sending those txts and feels as if she ready but when it comes down to it she is not ready and feels to shy/embarrassed. Maybe she is a virgin or you have alot more experience than her and she is worried you will compare her to the other girls.Maybe just does trust/loive you enought yet just wait and be patient and do not try and pressure her into anything.

Answer 3

sounds like she might be a bit of a tease hun!!! I cant offer any more advice than that!!

xx

Answer 4

there is something she is not telling you maybe you should talk to her about it it could probably be that is too personal  talking is the answer  i would think

good luck  

Answer 5

well it sees to me that she might either just want to talk a bout it or that she she just dosn't realy know weather she's really ready to have s*x or not. My only advice to is is that you could try to sit her down and talk abou it with her or just give her alittle time or you could tell her hpw you feel bout it and see how she reacts to it when she tells you thast she's ready for it but just make shure that your in a ptive place where your not going to get aeen ok.

Answer 6

Her first time perhaps?

Answer 7

Ask her if she will indulge you in a spot of anal queefing?

Then you will know fo' shizzle.

Answer 8

Give her time. Sometimes we  talk the talk than walk the walk.

Answer 9

well....think bout the fact that she is only talking to you about it over texts.  its probably because she is not ready to talk about it in person with you let alone do it!

im not saying you or ur girlfriend are immature...but she is really showing her immaturity.

id suggest speaking to your girlfriend in person n asking her what she really wants because shes giving you mixed messages which isnt fair on you.  tell her your thoughts on having s*x with her, if you dont feel ready either then tell her how you feel.

doing it over text is not the way to do it :)

x

Answer 10

She's a tease.  She knows that the texting got your attention, and put her in control.  She likes the power she gets from turning you down later.

Answer 11

Don't try to pressure her into it, just let it happen naturally.

Answer 12

just tell her eye to eye very romantically and caring that you will wait till shes ready. be sincere and ashe will realise thus becoming more comfortable with you!

Answer 13

shes stringing you along if you love her wait and let her initiate

Answer 14

I bet she's making a fool out of you. Get rid of her now.

Answer 15

your girlfriend is not ready for s*x. she is talking about it via text because she thinks that is what you want. tell her you will wait till she is ready and there is not pressure

Answer 16

I wouldn't say rape...

Just force it upon her... :)