My girlfriend thinks that I am too complacent to her, what can I do to fix this?

Question

She is a strong personality and she is very confrotational, she thinks that I am not. Is this a really bad thing for us, we've had this issue for over a year. Help please....

Answer 1

For 20 years I have told myself - 'she'll appreciate who I am once she get's to know me better' [did I mention it's been 20 years].

Know what I wish - that I had married someone else. Not just "anyone" ... cause "i'm special", but then, as I think back to the ladies I dated before I married... I would have done better to have just left before marriage.

No kids

No fuss

Just leave

Point is: If she does not adore you -for who you are now- it will be worse after your married. Much worse.

Answer 2

Get up in her face a few times I mean really get up there see whats happens now itis time make or break not after you say I do

Answer 3

It really depends on you guys, maybe she wants someone to fight with? Try standing your ground and see how it goes, she may end up hating it and wanting the old you back.