My girlfriend wants s*x but I don't yet. ?

Question

How can I get it through her? She just gets all disappointed and pissy. She even called me girly for not wanting it and that other guys would love it. She even offered to ask her mom for birth control.....I'm not comfortable with it. When I try to tell her, she takes it as she's too ugly or I don't want to with her.

Answer 1

Are you g*y?  I'm not being mean, it's just a lot easier to deal with your sexuality before you get married or something.

Answer 2

Tell her you not ready and wait for the relationship get stronger. If she don't understand that then thats when you ask yourself do she really love you.

Answer 3

OK...DR. LUV SAYS:

Whats really the problem here? this seems to be a reverse role. Normally its the woman in the relationship that wants to wait. This is a special case, so this is what i have to say about it. Look deep within your heart and ask yourself this question, "Why dont I want to have s*x right now"? Once you have answered that, explain it to your woman. Tell her the reasons, and if she loves you as much as she says, then she will have no problem understanding. Love is sacrifice. Also, dude, you have to ensure her that, to you, she is the most heavenly woman on this earth. Alot of women actually have this problem. they feel that the only way to show someone that they love them, is by crawling under sheets with them. And if this is the case with your girl, then you have alot to work on. It means that she has insecurity issues that desperately need to be adjusted. Your job is to drill it into her mind that she is in no way shape form or fashion anything less that absolute perfection in your eyes. And after all of this, if she still wants to have s*x with you and you love her as much as you say you do, like i said, LOVE IS SACRIFICE, then just take this for the betterment of your relationship, suck it up and have s*x with your girlfriend. Its a decision that you may initially feel is wrong and uncomfortable, but if you care enough to give it a shot with her, I pretty much know that you are going to want to do it again. so go through all the steps and if push comes to shove, unbuckle and give her what she wants. (I should be getting paid for this S***)

Answer 4

1- why wouldnt you have s*x with her if she's asking??

2- perform oral s*x or something, make an effort to at least please ger a little

3-at least let her give you some head

Answer 5

I agree with you. I actually like you for taking control. You are wise for thinking about the  consequences that might happen. Don't be pressured. Just keep your control. For me, you are a real man.

Answer 6

So, what is your problem? If I was her I'd dump you in a second. She has needs and you are denying her. If she can't have you, she will find someone else, so give it up. What the h**l are you waiting for. She deserves a real man.

Answer 7

Honestly if she really wants to give it to you that bad, how many other guys has she given to?

please don't take that the wrong way but 8 and a half months?

I definatley don't know but if you are not comfortable to do it, Don't!

Its really important that both people in the relationship are definatley ready. The way she's acting she might be one of those people that has s*x once and want to spend the rest of their life with you right away within like a week. Don't do it.

Answer 8

Tell her how you feel.

Answer 9

Just tell her that you want your relationship to be too strong and therefore needs time to spend more knowing each other rather than being physical.

Tell her,you will show your man part someday but she has to wait if she really wants it and loves you.

Even if she forces than ask her if she wants a s**y-romantic s*x or a horrible-monster one.If the first one she opt for than she has to wait and if the second option she prefer than tell her you are not a monster.

Answer 10

Her personality USES anger and meanness to manipulate people.  If you give in, then she will ALWAYS use her moods to get what she wants from you.   VERY unhealthy for a relationship.   Eventually you would rebel or even turn mean your self.