My girlfriend wants to wait to have a relationship?

Question

I am about to leave for boot camp pretty soon. Since its the Marines it will be 12 weeks total. Then I come back for a week then go to more training for another 12 weeks. She says that she doesnt want to have a relationship til after I get back. But she says she will be waiting here for me when I get back. I beleive her. But I feel like their is an alterior motive to this. If anyone could tell me what you think i would gladly listen.

Answer 1

Actually, I think that is very smart from, her,,, maybe by being in a relationship while you are away, it will soon be boring for you and her .. and she is worried that this will be a routine of your relationship w/ her