My girlfriend was crying when she found out that I've been watching p**n...?

Question

ok, we are in a long distance relationship (we've been a regular relationship for the last 2 months but it's been 2 weeks since the long distance one), and we have done stuff (but not intercourse, I respect her, maybe I'll have it when the time is right)...but yeah, she did find out (it's a long story) and immediately she began to cry a lot...

what can I do to not make her cry? she's very emotional person...

we're 19 by the way...

I'm planning on a surprise 'visiting' in 2 weeks and this will probably make her happy...i guess

oh and don't get me wrong, we're in love with each other and she's really beautiful...and i'm so lucky to have her

Answer 1

AIght this happened to me too. I am in long distance as well and my g/f was sad when she found out. There is not much you can do except say that you only watch it occasionally and that it's not because she's not enough for you, but cuz ur a guy and you cant help it. Oh and dont eve talk about it again, no need. Good Luck

Answer 2

She cried? Oh god. Tell her to get on her big girl panties and get over it.

The human s*x drive is a perfectly natural thing and is nothing to cry about. Sheesh.

Explain why you enjoy watching p**n, and maybe she'll understand. If not, I suggest you seek a more compatible companion.

Now for some real advice: She probably cried because she feels bad that she can't be there to please you herself. If you guys are far apart, she may fear that you won't need her if you have p**n to please you. Let her know, buddy.

Answer 3

you in deep stuff!! good luck! =)

Answer 4

My best friend just had the same thing happen to her with her boyfriend.  The reason she got upset is because she probably feels like you were watching p**n because you weren't satisfied with her.  Explain the situation and your reasons and let her know how much you care about her and that you respect her decision not to have s*x, that just because you look at p**n doesn't mean blah, blah, blah...