My girlfriend wont go and get an HIV test.?

Question

I got a false positive and my life turned upside down for the week i had to deal with it.my girlfriend and i tested later that week and she tested negative and so did i.I was suprised that i tested negative and was so confused.i went back a month later and tested negative again and now i want my girlfriend to go and get tested again so we can put this whole HIV thing behind us.but she wont go and is acting like a brat about it and is calling me a fiend when its only a 20 min test do u guys think i should be mad about it how would u react.before eachother are last sexual encounter with anyone by the time of the first test would be 6 months ago.by the time of my second test my last sexual encounter with anyone would be 7 months

Answer 1

Give her a break.

Answer 2

I assume you got tested using Rapid HIV test. In contrary to the person that says false positives are RARE, I have to say false positives are very common in Rapid HIV tests. The first test was most likely a false positive as you have had two other test and they were negative.

Your girlfriend tested negative, so I do not understand why you insist to take her for another test. She is negative. Move on with your life and enjoy. You are both conclusively negative as your last exposure before the test was more than 3 months.

MOVE ON and have good time with your girlfriend. Do not upset her over this. SHE IS NEGATIVE. PERIOD!

Answer 3

You are majorly paranoid. I completely understand that you are. False Positives on HIV tests are VERY rare and I'm happy for you to actually get one. I see where are you completely scared about this. I had been scared for 6 months because I was so worried about my tests results. The whole waiting to find out between 3-6 months is the hardest part because you can't know what's wrong. Congrats on being negative and remember to use condoms with people who you don't know what their status truely is.

BUT to be honest, I can see where she's coming from also. She has been tested and so have you. You both came back negative. If she had a false positive I would agree that she needs to test again. But she didn't and she's not worried about it. And neither should you. You need to put this in the past. You are negative and so is she.

Answer 4

JUST GIVE HER A LITTLE TIME SHE MIGHT GO

Answer 5

You have a right to ask her to go it is your LIFE! and you want to be positive everything is in the clear. She is being a brat and even if she doesnt want to go she should @ least go to put you @ ease.