My girlfriends' boyfriend called me, do I tell her?

Question

My close friend has a boyfriend who I thought was ok but he called me a few nights ago and tried to organise a 'lunch date' with me.

I thought very inappropriately.

He is leaving the state in the next couple of weeks, do I tell her or keep it to myself, he will be gone soon and highly unlikely that he will be back anyway. I don't want to upset her.

Answer 1

Its nice that you care for yr frnd so much.now dont even think for the moment and go n talk to her her abt the matter.I think getting mentally prepared for all is better than getting the frequent shock.the news will depress her obviously but yr suport wil help her out.and its also possible that their face to face conversatn can help them to continue their relatnship. even after his leaving the place.

Answer 2

Yes, I guess so since you are best of friends.  Be transparent to your friend.

Answer 3

      maybe her boyfriend arranged a lunch date maybe he doesn't like to date you.  Maybe he just wanted to learn more about your close friend. then tell her that

"your boyfriend called me he really wanted to get closer to you. He even wanted

to know if i am a good friend of yours or a bad one." The laugh as if nothing happened then don't worry your friend will joined you laughing......................  

Answer 4

Tell her ! Would'nt you want her to do the same ?

Answer 5

Its better she finds out from you then finds out you didn't telll her

Answer 6

tell her

Answer 7

your friendship is important to you right?

i think you should tell her rather than she finds it out from someone else..

I think that's the best way to keep your friendship...

but...

do you like the guy?

tell her honestly how you feel and ask her what she feels, that might help. plus you won't get worried to much anymore :)

Answer 8

Was it like he was trying to get with you?

Maybe it was something less sinister, perhaps he wanted to get ome advice on getting a present for her, or help with planning something special before he leaves. Though if you are certain he was just after you, then maybe you could tell her.  

Answer 9

Tell her and then she can dump his sorry butt before he leaves!

Answer 10

If it's a good friend I'd mention that he called for a lunch date. Let him explain to her why he called, he'll probably say it's to talk about her since you know your friend well.